I actually just moved to Seattle over the summer and have been lazy about changing my profile.
neveryoumindthere, DEAD ON about needing a very long break. dh might take the kids and it'll be like, "yay! now I can_____... but not yet" then they get home and I'm still sitting around and its like, dammit! I didn't get to do anything.
To be honest, its not difficult at all to find things I enjoy doing. I like to sew, and do it a lot.
Getting out with friends would be HEAVENLY. And, I put out the effort. dh is going out of town next week. I tried setting up a MNO on a meetup group I'm on, midweek, to break it up.. crickets. And a few RSVPs "no". Same thing happened when I tried to set one up with a different group last time he went out of town. I spend the weeks before a trip asking around, and NO ONE can make it. It gets really old begging people to hang out with you and getting rejected.