16 dpo, BFN on FRER-- question about bringing on AF - please advise

[luckyArmylady]

OK today is 16dpo, temps are still at POST O levels.... im 97.2-97.3 pre-o then go up to 97.7 once i O... that happened for me on CD19 which is late, usually I o around cd15-16.... it is now CD35. NO AF IN SIGHT, extreme lower ab bloat, cant button pants, have had daily BM (sorry TMI, but for me its every other or every 3 days) breasts are full and heavy but only periodically sore (normally get sore BBs 4-5 days b4 AF and its consistent) . I do not have PCOS Thank the Good Lord as I've been lucky w no DX'd issues. Im still so confused. I didnt test today but yesterday BFN using FRER,no mistaking it. With my son BFP 12 dpo (didnt test sooner but it was dark line) I was pregnant 3 yrs ago and found out almost a week before AF was due, unfortunately that didnt turn out well (had D&C) ....now that I am trying whenever hubby and I can be together around fertile times (he is stationed in Hawaii and was in Iraq for a yr) so we've tried for past 2 cycles, if I can get AF started I can plan my next visit with him to be during the fertile week:. PLease anyone have any experience bringing on AF.. Id love to be prego but doubt i am, it would show up by now.
Ive heard parsley tea can do it, make period come, is this true? I have new health insurance and am still waiting for my 1st appt with primary care doc, so I am not able to goto a doc until Oct 4th and have not found an OB/GYN in Philadelphia that takes TRICARE (Army/Mil insurance)
Thanks for any input!

[Daisy420]

So sorry about the bfn and that you're confused. Could you paste a link to your chart? It might provide a little more light

[just_lily]

Are you absolutely sure you aren't pregnant this cycle? Sometimes it takes a little longer to build up HCG - just because you got a BFP with a previous pregnancy at 12 DPO doesn't necessarily mean the same will happen the next time around. Maybe it took an extra day or two for implantation... or maybe you O'd a day or two later than you thought.

If you think you are 16DPO and your temps are up, I would definitely hold tight and test again.