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Teething 4mo won't stop biting, help!

post #1 of 7
Thread Starter 
Well the title pretty much says it all. The baby has two lower teeth coming in, and every time he latches on he bites down, hard. I now have identical bitemarks, complete with broken skin and bleeding on both breasts. I've tried telling him no biting and then putting him down to walk away for a few minutes. It doesn't really seem to be working, he just screams and cries while I tend to my wounded breasts. I've always nursed him on demand too, so he's used to nursing pretty frequently (which means I've been bitten about 6 times so far today, the last two times were the worst though and that was when he actually managed to break the skin.)

I'm so frustrated, I nursed my twins exclusively until they were 13 months old, and this only became an issue with them when they were around the 1yo mark, so old enough for them to get the no biting and walking away routine.

Help, I don't want to wean him, well not in the big picture anyway. But right now the idea of letting him near my boobs is freaking me out, I don't want to keep getting bitten!
post #2 of 7
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Bumping this up because he's still biting and I'm starting to worry about maintaining our nursing relationship (MIL already brought up weaning him over dinner tonight, of course I changed the subject.) I don't want to scare him every time he bites me by reacting negatively, but it's so hard not to. I really need some concrete ideas for what to do...

Still no advice?
post #3 of 7
My LO is a similar age. She has been adopting a shallow latch lately (from fast let down or distraction or because she isn't super interested in nursing or something) and what I find helps is just taking her off then putting her back on. If she does it a few times I end the nursing session. Don't know whether the same would work for biting.
post #4 of 7
My guy is almost 6 mos and I have been going thru the same thing over the past 3 wks. Lots of support and advice - my ob, my lactation consultant, friends - but none of it has worked. I've tried saying no, putting him down & walking away. I've tried actually pushing him into the breast and saying no then re latching. I've tried keeping my finger near his mouth then inserting it to remove him when I think he is getting ready to bite. But NONE of it has worked. My ob - who is a wonderful woman who I really respect - said that maybe, sadly, he just doesn't understand cause/effect well enough to get what he is doing. I've been pumping to maintain a supply but he is so young and pumping is at least a 20 min ordeal that I am now thinking I need to stop pumping altogether. I feel like I have truly tried everything and am still stuck. Sorry this isn't exactly advice for you, but I am right there with you to sympathize and if anyone has advice I haven't tried, I'd welcome it as well!
post #5 of 7
Oh I forgot to say that I have been beating myself up and crying almost constantly throughout all this. This has been one of the hardest decisions for me and it is breaking my heart to stop bfing/pumping but I am completely at a loss and it feels like this is our best option. OK sorry!
post #6 of 7
Jeesh sorry! One last thing and I will stop! What I meant about the pumping was just that at 20+ mins a shot, several times a day, it is a lot of time to expect a 5-6 mo to self entertain and holding a squirming baby while pumping is well, tiring. That's the reason I am considering the ending of pumping. Ok sorry again to hijack your post and not even provide any advice! SORRY!
post #7 of 7
squashing my ds into my breast works for me. along with a "no biting whie nursing" and massaging his gums before nursing.

nak
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