If you're willing to consider a family doctor instead of a pediatrician, Waj Nasser at Capital City Family Medicine is very open-minded and alternative-friendly. He'll do delayed vaccinating and is receptive to natural or herbal options before pharmaceuticals. He's also not a doctor who resorts to antibiotics first thing, etc. The only down side to Waj is he is very popular, so it takes days to get an appointment with him. If you have an emergency situation, they have a walk-in service. I don't like their PAs nearly as well as Waj, but the rest of the practice is worth putting up with for him. Plus, I love being able to take my entire family to the same doctor and not have to deal with separate offices, etc. One of his partners is also a trained pediatrician who practices family medicine. I personally prefer Waj, but you might like the other doctor(s).
Bubby, you can sue their butts off, and file a complaint with the medical board. It is illegal for them to vaccinate your child against your wishes. I know the damage is done, but if you pursue it, you might be able to save other kids from their overbearing "help".
ETA: To my knowledge, CCFM will only take Medicaid if you were an existing patient who started using Medicaid. I tried to refer a friend to him years ago, and his office told her they didn't usually take Medicaid, except in those circumstances. That might have changed in the past years, so it couldn't hurt to call to ask.
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