Dear soon-to-be ExHusband...

[kblackstone444]

Is it really better for you now? Is it really better for our children? Are you really now happier than you've ever been now? Was sacrificing our marriage, our family, our children worth it? Did you get what you needed? I didn't. I wake up every morning thinking about the family I lost, missing the child you took away from me, trying to deal with the pain anger, and abandonment our other child deals with every single day. Are you really happy now? Are you really happy with your new woman, your new family, your new friends, your new life? Are you sure that someday you won't look back and wonder if you made a mistake? Have you really convinced yourself that the children are okay, that I'm okay? Have you really made youreslf forget everything we went through, every good moment we had, every time we stuck together through the bad times, when no other couple would have made it? Have you really convinced yourself that none of "us" was worth saving, not the family part, not the marriage part, nothing? How did you convince yourself to throw our family away like that? I wish I could forget that easily.

[kblackstone444]

It was a rough day. It was my stepdaughter's birthday. I wasn't invited to her birthday. My Ex's best friend who helped destroy our relationship was there. My Ex's new girlfriend, my "replacement" was there. All the people who used to be my friends and family were there. I wasn't invited. Why? Because I cheated on my Husband? No. Because I beat his child? No. Because I lied, cheated, stole, somehow ruined his life? No. I wasn't there because he "fell out of love with me". I'm no longer his stapdaughter's family. I met her when she was 13 months old. She turned 10 today.

[meemee]

oh mama.

i am so so so so sorry for the pain you are going through. i am so sad you have lost a child.

[PlayaMama]

forum crashing from new posts but ouch!

that is so sad. and must be so confusing for her! i'm sorry mama.

[Jyotsna]

Sending you hugs, and lots and lots of extra strength to get through this and be better on the other side of this.

[PoppyMama]

I'm so sorry. I just don't understand the selfish, obliviousness...I try but I don't think I will ever understand.

[Chantelle691]

I'm so sorry.

[GranoLLLy-girl]

I'm so sorry. Send that child a gift so she knows you are thinking of her---and have it Fed Exed or something without a return address so that he won't intercept it. What an ...