Dd1 refused to visit.... - Page 2

[homewithtwinsmama]

[QUOTE=meemee;15926544]

Originally Posted by homewithtwinsmama

mama go read thru old posts to find out the back story. there is a lot. mostly failure of authorities to really do anything. due to a variety of reasons.

I believe I have read every post of OP for years. I have never seen one where she said the therapist or doctor actually made a report to CPS. She called, but they don't always believe the parent in a hostile post divorce custodial situation. That is why I am asking if doctor and therapist are communicating with each other and with CPS!

[meemee]

aaaah gotcha!!!

[Jyotsna]

I'm not sharing everthing about who has called CPS, because it is possible he reads this. Someone in authority has called CPS. It went no where. Very distressing.

[smeep]

Originally Posted by Jyotsna

Smeep:

She is 10, has to change in her father's bedroom. She has no bedroom of her own. Her brother does however. She is a woman now.

Is she not allowed to change in the bathroom, i.e., is he FORCING her to change in his bedroom? Or has she just not considered the option? I would ask her about this...but without implying anything. Perhaps a simple, "What about changing in the bathroom?" and see what her reply is. If he's specifically refusing to allow her to change in the bathroom, she will most likely tell you.

[smeep]

Originally Posted by Jyotsna

Someone in authority has called CPS. It went no where. Very distressing.

THIS is why I don't trust CPS for anything. There are so many cases where they do nothing, and so many cases where they destroy families that just need a little bit of help (or families that are doing great but they took the side of the person who called with malicious intent). I'm so, so sorry!!!!