My IL's have a business that has been their livelihood for pretty much their entire adult lives. While many years it's been a pretty meager existance the past several years have been great finanically. They have no plan for this business when they can no longer do the work. They keep expanding and buying equipment. But MIL's health is failing and she is spending a lot of her time trying to keep her own father out of the nursing home. They have a will, they have a pretty high net worth, but very little of what they have is not related to the business (i.e. land, equipment, ect)
They have three kids SIL, DH and BIL. SIL and DH both live several hundred miles away. SIL has no interest in this business and a pretty much no net worth that's not in retirement accounts. BIL lives a mile away and helps part-time with the business and has an interest in the business, but FIL mostly finds him unsuitable for anything that requires real responsibility (this is part family dyamics/part BIL issues with substance abuse). He also has not much for assets except his house and some retirement money. DH has an interest in working in the business and we do have some money that could go into the business. But we don't really feel like we can just move there without any sort of plan or a job for me with health insurance.
Anyway any thoughts?
They have three kids SIL, DH and BIL. SIL and DH both live several hundred miles away. SIL has no interest in this business and a pretty much no net worth that's not in retirement accounts. BIL lives a mile away and helps part-time with the business and has an interest in the business, but FIL mostly finds him unsuitable for anything that requires real responsibility (this is part family dyamics/part BIL issues with substance abuse). He also has not much for assets except his house and some retirement money. DH has an interest in working in the business and we do have some money that could go into the business. But we don't really feel like we can just move there without any sort of plan or a job for me with health insurance.
Anyway any thoughts?







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). But at a person in my early 40's with an advance degree in my field I'm not really interested in either changing fields or working a job just because has insurance. I would also be limited to jobs a sane driving distance away which are finite in general and very finite if I stay in my field.
. He'll be ready for the working portion of his life by the time IL's want to retire (DH and I will be ready to retire ourselves. IL's are only 21 year older than us.)
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and not let it set in a more passive and liquid investment.