For me, that is what I like best about UP/UC is that the ball is ALWAYS in my court, and I choose what to do with it. I choose what if any care, if and when and with whom, and same goes for the birth. I am just ashamed/sad that it has taken me 2 other births to get to the point of saying 100% stick it to the system lol. I have alwasy been quite proactive in my other pregnancies with what thngs I did and didnt do, but this is the 1st time I have taken total responsibility for myself and my unborn babies, and it feels GREAT!
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10/14/10 at 6:23am