Barefoot, let's just say 6/5 for now. If something is really wonky after talking to a midwife, measuring, etc. I'll maybe change it later. We've got LOTS of time, right?
Bax, if being happy is a jinx, I should have never stayed pregnant with #1! I was floating on air! It's hard being so surpremely happy and thinking, "This might end." I did a lot of praying and a lot of talking to myself that no matter what, it is not my fault. I am doing the best I can, but God's omiscience and acts of nature are out of my control. So I am just going to be happy with this moment and enjoy the blessing of being pregnant for this hour.
SWhite, telling other people is so personal! It totally depends. With #1, we had fun because we got our dads "grandpa's" day cards (about 7 weeks along) and of course the Grandmas found out too. Siblings we told at 10 weeks, and church friends, etc. we told at 12. Pretty "by the book".
This time, we are gathering at Thanksgiving with a bunch of family and will probably tell most people then. We will be telling parents and siblings before the trip, though, and church family will learn after that, probably. My DH and I are kind of enjoying just having this secret between us. But I'll need/want to tell my mom before too long!