dh is pakistani, we cook a lot of indo pak food here)
the eggplant we make is:
egg plants 2
Onions 2 (small) or one 1o
tomato 2
Yougurt 1 cup
Roast the eggplants on the stove... for about 10 min or until they thy are black.. then take off their skin with either knife or with hands.. put em in a bowl and mash em... (i usually put them in the oven or microwave until they are soft like baked potatoes)
now in a cooking pan.. pour oil(i like to use real ghee), fry onions in the oil till they are light brown..then add tomatoes and green chillies, salt, red pepper, cumin, then cook em for about 2-3 mins and add mashed eggplants and cook for about 5 min then add yougurt and let it cook with the lid on until the water or yougurt it dried..cook it on low heat, then spead chopped up green corriander or parsley on the top.
this recipe is from my SIL, i also like to use desicookbook.com or
http://www.angelfire.com/country/fau...egetarian.html