CherryBomb- congrats on your new little one! I'm sorry the birth didn't go as planned, but it does seem like there was a reason for this one, and I'm so glad you've got your little one in your arms safe and sound.
IDK what the future holds re: more kiddos. Dh and I are observant Catholics so birth control is totally out of the question (I use Creighton). I talked to the OB today and while she didn't say "don't have more kids" she made it clear that another c/s would have serious risks for me. My lower uterine segment is paper thin and she said that while she didn't think that increases my UR risk, the on call ob that did the c/s said he had a difficult time suturing my uterus because it was so thin it was basically falling apart when he would try to put in the stitches. And I have lots of bad internal scarring so getting down there to my uterus was difficult and will probably be worse next time. I didn't ask about vbacing with her if I do have anymore, but I think it might be a possibility with her. Our family feels complete for now, but since sterilization and such is completely out of the question, I have to consider the possibility (I'll be a good girl about my NFP, though!)
Oh, and apparently my scar is super low and bizarre. He just went over the old scars, but for some reason the first c/s the doctor did it really low and in a weird curly q shape that goes out to my left hip/leg! Every new nurse I got said they've never seen such a low scar.
Hugs all around.