I just wanted to thank everyone for your support and advice. I deeply deeply appreciate it!!!!
I did have to work with her on Tuesday. I was anxious on my way to work, but when I got there and saw her I was deeply upset. I stayed away from her as long as I possibly could, and when she said "hi" to me in her fakingly sweet voice, I just had to ignore her for a while.
I thought my emotion was more furious-ness (is that a word?) and anger. But when I actually was there for a while, I actually felt really upset and hurt
Eventually she came and asked me if I was ignoring her, and I just said "yes I am". She asked why and I said that I didn't want to talk about it. She pushed a few other times, and I simply said that it was not the time and place to discuss it with her...so I just continued to ignore her for the night.
I didn't feel I could calmly and rationally discuss the issue with her that night when I was feeling so upset.
Now that I have seen her, and ignored her for a bit, I feel like maybe next time I have to see her I will be able to simply say that I heard what she said about me and my pregnancy, and I think it's really really sad that she would say such a horrible and awful comment, and tell her I would never wish such a horrible thing on someone...and just walk away. That's about all I can do at this point.
Anyway, I just really appreciate all the support you ladies have given me...as well as the wonderful advice. It's quite interesting to me how we would all handle things in our own way. I'm glad I shared so that I was able to learn from all of you wise mamas!