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4am baby is killing me. Have you been there?

post #1 of 4
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Ugh Mamas!
I'm going crazy here and need some advice or at least some commisserating!

My co-sleeping DS is 14mos and is waking earlier and earlier every day and it is killing me. This kid slept till somewhere between 6:30 -7:30 all summer. Heaven!
He has always woken around 4am for a nurse, but used to go back to sleep. NOW he still wakes at that time, nurses and goes back to the lightest sleep ever. If he hears a bird fart outside the window he pops up, babbling or sometimes crying - either way wanting to nurse again. I comply while he nurses, kneads, pinches, and gently kicks my stomach rythmically. My back is screaming, my arm is asleep, but I cannot pop him off and roll over or else he'll wake back up as he's not truly asleep.

No matter how long I lay there still and letting him nurse, listening for the sleep breathing sounds, the minute I move he awakens and then we start it all over again!

HEEEELLLLP! It makes for a grumpy baby and mama. Not good.
post #2 of 4
good morning!

I'm right there with you... DS2 is 11 months old and up by 5 am every day. I'm just riding it out, since DS1 did the same and now at 4, I have to pull him out of bed at 8 am (he sleeps 12-13 hours every night now...). Hang in there!
post #3 of 4
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Thank you! I needed to hear that!!! I will think of you tomorrow morning and not feel so frustrated. If I'm not alone, its not so bad.
post #4 of 4
My son went through that semi-awake thing. It was annoying and stopped when I weaned him.

My little girl didn't have that issue but I weaned her anyway and now she is up for the day at 5:30 at the latest. I don't get out of bed before 5:45. Even if it means she lies there and has a fit.

It'll pass, hopefully
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