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The beginning of the end

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I think my DS may be weaning at 3.5 and I am not sure if I am ready or not. He has mentioned for the past couple of weeks that there is no more milk and saying "I drank it all up!". He will still nurse briefly in the morning or at night, but not usually both, and the morning nursing is fading fast. He has gone 24 hours between nursings at least three or four times in the past month or so too. I am wondering how long it lasts when a child starts to taper down so much and the milk has almost completely dried up? I really want to celebrate his weaning when it happens, and am wondering about how much longer we might have?

The funny thing is that about a month ago, he had a MAJOR uptick in how often he nursed. I was starting to make more milk, and he was nursing multiple times a day every day. I honestly think he would still nurse more if I had more milk, but I sort of feel silly trying to do anything to increase my supply at this point. I don't think he really gets that there will be an end point someday, and he is just slowing down on his own.

Please hold my hand through this mamas. He will likely be my only child, so I am a little sad to let this stage go.
post #2 of 5
Hugs to you mama! I don't have any great advise but maybe make some oatmeal cookies and eat them up! I hope you have time to adjust. My milk is really low as well (but my dd2 is only 2.5yrs) and I am not sure why and it is bumming me out.
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No advice, but I know that for some people it goes very quickly once they are to that frequency while others go for,literally, years nursing a few times a week. Whatever it ends up being for you & DS, know that you gave him the wonderful gift of following his own timeline.
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No advice, but I know that for some people it goes very quickly once they are to that frequency while others go for,literally, years nursing a few times a week. Whatever it ends up being for you & DS, know that you gave him the wonderful gift of following his own timeline.


I still have plenty of milk and DS2 nurses frequently, but DS1 hasn't been able to get any milk out for probably close to a year. It seems at some point he forgot how to nurse effectively. He still asks 2-3x per week, usually at bedtime, but sometimes when he's upset. He just turned 5.
post #5 of 5
each child is so different. my dd has been dry nursing for the last 5 years.

so you never know. with my dd right from day one it was more than just nutrition. it was therapy.

in the beginning she was most unhappy. she'd pump my breast to get more milk. she'd bring me milk to drink so i made more milk. or she'd make sure i had enough to eat.

however between dc, and overnights with dad, my milk was gone a little after 3.

but she accepted it and nursed right on.

seh has had huuuuuuuuuuge mental benefits from nursing.
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