i think it would be a good idea to send a text informing him that from now on, all visitation will occur according to the court order. each time he requests that you give him something outside of that, just say "no" without any further explanation. don't engage.
i agree that he is allowed to attend school functions or other fairly public things, but the kids are still in your care.
i agree that he is allowed to attend school functions or other fairly public things, but the kids are still in your care.







