Pop Quiz

[candycat]

Edited by candycat - 12/25/10 at 4:55am

[vannienicole]

[incorrigible]

ouch!

what a <UAV>!

It may take a little while for folks to respond just because it's so hard to think of something TO say that won't get one in trouble with the admins!

Just try to be thankful you don't have him CONSTANTLY in your home and life anymore? Every time my x would pull something really awful, I'd try not to focus on the continuing harrassment...but the fact that I was finally gaining freedom from it. I could shut off my phone and be free. I could go home and he wouldn't be there waiting for me. I could sleep alone and safe at night. If he DID decide to show up, I could call the cops and they would remove him because my home was a safe place for my children and myself, and he only had the power I allowed him. And that was NONE! =D

I'll pray for you and your babies to get better quickly! You've done your duty by informing him of what's going on. Keep a record of what time you called, and the fact that he never showed up or called the kid - or whatever happens. But, unless you need your phone on for some other reason...I strongly suggest turning it off! Just focus on your babies and yourself right now. In this case, he really can only effect you as much as you allow him.

*BIGHUGS*

[*MamaJen*]

Oh, jeez. The only remotely helpful thing I can say is -- thank god you're no longer with this guy. It just never ceases to amaze me, the things I read on this board.

[josybear]

wow, mama. just wow.

[sapphire_chan]

:

I'd choose a.

but I have certain positive qualities that may not be shared by your stbx.

If your stbx did in fact choose e, then I would suspect that he is both missing many positive traits AND that he has replaced them with negative traits.

[hillymum]

Hugs!
How are you all doing today?

Every time sbxh does something off the wall I get to smile to myself and think about how he is just making himself look even worse to the judge. That doesn't help short term, but it does help me deal with it just a little bit better.

[Halfasianmomma]

Is there choice f)

"Strategically walk under a falling baby grand piano" ?

I know, I know. It's an utter waste of a good baby grand.

[candycat]

Edited by candycat - 12/25/10 at 4:59am

[MissLotus]

First of all, I hope your child is home from the hospital - that is scary stuff. Second of all, I hope you did not pick up medicine for that waste of space. Thirdly, answers b.), c.) and d.) are the reasons you're divorcing the waste of space. Fourth, my ex, in spite of being abusive and alcoholic and other fun things, still (eight years later, including our long separation and drawn-out divorce) complains that I "kicked him out". I've long since ignored his statement, but the last time I did respond I said,

"You're damn right I did."