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post #21 of 25
Me! Me! We have the kitchen and living room "babyproofed" and gated off from the rest of the house. If he can reach it (and he can reach lots of stuff!), it ends up on the floor. He can open all my kitchen drawers, so there are usually various utensils, pots, and pans on the floor (stuff like spatulas that he can't get hurt on. All the "unsafe" things are in the top drawer that he can't reach...yet). Folded clothes get unfolded, anything that he can reach on the counters gets pulled off.
The bathroom is fun In the time it takes me to pee and wash my hands, he's pulled various things out of the drawers, pulled towels or washcloths out of the cupboard, and climbs on the toilet to get to the toilet paper.
Oh, and he puts everything in the recycling bin. Our trash can is outside of the baby area, but the recycling cans are inside. He tips them over and gets all the paper out and all over the floor. When dp takes the recycling out, he goes through it one thing at a time to get all the good stuff out.
And the cans- he loves to move my canned goods from the cupboard to the counter. But he never moves them back. hehe

And yeah, we just simply cannot babyproof everything he can get into. There's always stuff on the floor. I constantly pick stuff up and put it away, but there's always more stuff coming out. I tried to ignore the stuff on the floor, figuring that it was going to come back out anyways, but when I started tripping over things I decided it wasn't working for me.

It does help that we have a gated off area. That eliminates a lot of things he can get into- no trash, no shoes, no dog bowls.
Some things we don't allow (ie: we move him every single time). But mostly, I've decided I could either "teach" him not to get into stuff, which would take a LOT of time and would stress both of us out, or I can do what I do- let him make a mess then clean as I can, which makes him happy.

eta- ds1 was soooo not like this!
post #22 of 25
Reading these posts makes me feel so much better!! Our house is a wreck too. I have bins and baskets in every room for DD's toys, which helps. I go around a few times a day and put the toys back in the bins, mostly so she can take them out again, lol. Sometimes I just give up and leave the mess on the floor. This irritates DH, who then goes around cleaning...I take weekends off, since I am a SAHM. If DH wants to clean, I am not going to stop him! I usually clean up everything when DD goes to bed at night, so she can start fresh in the morning. I also have to vacuum a lot, since she trails crumbs everywhere...Luckily we are able to gate the kitchen so she can't get in there, unless of course someone leaves the gate open, then she goes straight for the cat food. I just got DH to finally install a toilet lock, since she figured out how to get the lid up and I forget to shut the doors..We have two doors into the bathroom, weird but it is actually a good thing. We have a very small house so it's not too bad, I have gotten rid of nonessentials and I try to keep clutter to a minimum. One of my fave things to do is give her the junk mail, she loves to tear that up.
post #23 of 25
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oh, we did toilet lid locks from the beginning and I am so glad we did! One less thing to worry about. Now I need an oven lock, because DD grabs an oven mitt, pulls it up on her arm, and acts like she is going to open the oven door (because that's where the "pee-aa!!!!" (pizza) usually is.

I also got a four-quadrant ottoman in our living room. I divided her toys in the four sections, and she gets one section per day. So less toys for me to pick up, and she gets "new" things every day. Her stuffies and books are (supposed to be) in her room, and her tea set/wooden table and chairs and annoying-blinky-blinky-relative-gifted toys (activity table, ball popper) are in our office.

Everything gets dragged from room to room, though, every single day. I need to get rid of a lot of stuff, I think, just to make it easier on myself with cleaning and picking up. And start storing things really high up. Like on those poles you use while camping so the bears don't get your backpacks.
post #24 of 25
I am totally not looking forward to more years of this. I'm a messy person by nature, but I try to control it. It is incredibly demoralizing to me every day that yeah... I can get a load of laundry folded, but in that time four drawers of shirts are emptied and need to be folded again, too. DH had to give up the bottom drawer of his dresser to toys for them to dig in.

I keep the kitchen gated off, because I can't handle them underfoot in there right now. Anything within their reach is ok for them, generally. I try to tidy up a few times a day, and teach it like a game, but they're really too young for that of course. I'm also starting to take a hard line of being gentle with books.
post #25 of 25
Ah, books! DD likes to chew on hers...I let her chew on them, but I don't let her break the spines. DH says I am rough on books too...I spill stuff on them and don't use bookmarks, so I guess I am not setting a good example there. Oh, well.
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