What I mean is this. We are pregnant with our second. My dh feels that 2 kids is perfect and he could easily be "done" after this one. In my heart I wish we could have 3, but my mind agrees that 2 is probably for the best (mostly for financial reasons). But who knows what the next few years will bring (he is doing REALLY well at his job and has been offered to become a partner over the next several years).
We have decided not to close any doors permanently just yet. My dh also feels strongly about being done by 30 (we are 26 and 27 right now). He told me that he is still semi-open to the idea of having the third.
I am pregnant right now with number 2 so IF (and it's a big if) we decided to have one more, I'd most likely be getting pregnant again when i'm 29 (in 3 years). But there is also the chance that we will just decide/feel that 2 is it and we are done.
So now my question. Is it important to know it's your "last" baby while you are still pregnant? I guess my main fear is that we will decided in 2 or 3 years that yes we are done and i'll look back and somehow regret that I didn't "know" while I was still pregnant.
I guess writing this all out seems silly now when I read it back and of course no matter what i'm trying to enjoy and remember each special moment of the pregnancy, but i'm curious if anyone has any thoughts or if anyone felt/feels/wonders like I do???
i really hope that all made sense!!