As recently as a few months ago, a poor father ran over his own daughter in his own DRIVEWAY. I believe she was 9, and was just running out to greet him, and he didnt see her. 
3 and 5 would not be a risk Im willing to take just just let children be children.
Soooooo glad things worked out OP. I was going to suggest you say something along the exact lines of what you said. (perhaps SIL didnt even KNOW they were outside, so it didnt sound so accusatory)
And FTR, I would not be offended by thinking you were questioning my mama skills at all. I would be pleased to know you cared enough about my kids to say something.
3 and 5 would not be a risk Im willing to take just just let children be children.
Soooooo glad things worked out OP. I was going to suggest you say something along the exact lines of what you said. (perhaps SIL didnt even KNOW they were outside, so it didnt sound so accusatory)
And FTR, I would not be offended by thinking you were questioning my mama skills at all. I would be pleased to know you cared enough about my kids to say something.
