Dealing with my first baby cold here too (as well as me, DP and DSD), jeez it sucks!! Poor guy breathes so loud and wet!! We tried the blue bulb and a battery operated nasal thing too. Screaming like he was "being dismembered" is a really accurate description! It brought us to tears the first couple times and still makes us feel absolutely horrible. I also think, if he's crying that hard he's just producing more snot, ya know?
Anyway - I ordered from Amazon and received last night the nose Freida. I touched under and around his nose with it while he was feeding and at random times to get him used to the sight and feel of it. Then, we gave him a bath in the steamy bathroom this morning and cleaned his nose afterwards. The thing really works (it's hard though)!! I had also heard that the bulb thing could bruise the inside of their nose so I feel a lot better about this thing. I think we'll do the bouncy chair in the bathroom tonight before we clean his nose again as the saline makes him scream just as bad as the bulb thing!