These are all great suggestions!! Please keep them coming!! I def. think I am going to call organic grace to ask additional questions, she seems really knowledgeable about the mattress industry.
Also shepherd's dream looks wonderful..... I feel like when I look at their mattresses I just want to lie down and cuddle right in! Amazing! and they absolutely look luxurious!!
Has anyone had any experience with
white lotus
http://www.whitelotus.net/
Savvy
http://www.savvyrest.com/index.php
technology bedding (I have no idea about this one, it is suppose to be a spin off of a temper pedic made by a doctor and he said he would give a prescription for it??)
http://www.technologybedding.com/comparisons.asp
green island
http://www.gogreenisland.com/index.php?cPath=1_5_6_54
naturepedic (I heard they were not the best they still are wrapped in poly)
http://naturepedic.com/productsBaby.php
pure rest
http://www.purerest.com/Mattresses
organic and healthy mattresses (they choose to sell pure rest mattresses)
http://www.organicandhealthy.com/latex-mattresses.html
prescription beds (this is interesting and looks like the same spin off as technology bed, the same bed and pictures... Anyway it does have some useful information about the new laws that were implemented in the last 3/4 years and how even organic/wool mattresses can be treated)
http://www.prescriptionbeds.com/
some useful info from a doc who researched SIDS and recommended a clear polythene to wrap any mattress, not that I would want my children or baby sleeping on this as well as myself, it does seem better than the alternative of sleeping directly on a new toxic mattress. I know I also saw euro wraps not on this site but on others that you can wrap a mattress.
http://www.babysake.com/index.htm#Wh..._should_know:_
also shepherd's dream as mentioned above for mattresses.
http://www.shepherdsdream.com/
Anyway, like I had said before I have been researching mattresses for over 2 years and the above is just some of the sites I have visited out of thousands.... (literally) but the summary or conclusion that I came up with is as follows:
I really like to get a mattress that would require a prescription b/c I know as of July of 2006 it is a national law that all mattresses have a high level of flame tolerance. I think it had to pass a fire test that was with a fire proof cover that could withstand a two foot wide blow torch flame for 70 seconds or more. They doing this by using boric acid which is roach killer. There are many other chemicals in the mattresses besides boric acid are FORMALDEHYDE, ANTIMONY and DECABROMODIPHENYL OXIDE to list a few and many, many more....
What is also interesting is many countries and other research in other countries support that they have a decrease incidence of SIDS or hardly or almost non existent incidence of SIDS b/c the babies sleep on mattresses that do not contain chemicals/flame retardants.
Other research claims that the only reason the back to sleep advocacy was instated in the US was to keep the baby in the farthest position away from the mattress to decrease the incidence of SIDS from the toxic chemicals b/c if their heads are upright~ away from the mattresses that decreases their level of exposure as compared to a side sleeping infant or a stomach facing infant breathing in all the chemicals... And babies especially are vulnerable to these toxicities.....
There is also evidence in research that new beds as well as older beds (in the dust particles) can be stored and leached in mother's breast milk and the toxins can be easily passed to the infant.... ugg...
Anyway, when I was referring that I concluded that I would probably get a prescription bed I did not mean from technology bedding or prescription bedding. Those two places mentioned above, I really cannot say I trust.... I meant places like white lotus, and I think there is one other website above that have organic and wool mattresses but you need a doctors prescription to get them NOT CHEMICALLY TREATED. They list it as organic cotton mattress no flame retardant RX needed. Here is the one one white lotus
http://www.whitelotus.net/organic-cotton-mattress-rx/
This is what made sense to me about why a person would need to get a prescription to get a mattress that was not treated:
Under the national law in July 2006, aLL mattresses must abide by the strict flame proof laws. This includes organic mattresses, wool mattresses and latex as well as every other mattress sold. In reality, all these mattresses need to contain flame retardant chemicals to pass the law at high flame for 70 seconds, even though the many manufacturers won’t admit it..... It’s a law, they have to abide by this law. They may say they use ‘naturally flame resistant fibers’ but there is no such thing. These fibers, such as wool and cotton, are treated with harsh chemicals to make them flame proof in the manufacturing process and then used in the mattress (so that is how they get around calling them "organic" b/c they did not add the chemicals in the mattress, it was done before..... Please refer to the document on our website, “The problem with organic mattresses” for more on this issue bellow:
Here is one of the websites that gave a great explanation about the process of treatment and how "organic" sites can get around calling their product natural b/c they didn't add the fame retardants they were manufactured that way and they added them in their mattress before production therefore having the ability to "discard" that they are there
http://www.safecribbeds.com/problemorganic.asp
******My question is how can ANY manufacturer get "around" a national law for fire proofing...... Now, if there was something that could over ride then it would make sense that it would be a person who was sensitive or allergic of these things... a person who needs a prescription for a chemical free mattress then that manufacturer can make it chemical free and get around the law. Otherwise all manufacturers must abide by the law right???????
Ok is this logic or am I off here?? I don't want to spend tons of $$ on a mattress that has chemicals in it anyway that is "organic or wool or latex"
Please I would love to be wrong but I cannot unwrap myself around this logic.
Please explain to me that I am wrong!! Honestly, this is why I stopped researching b/c I was literally driving myself crazy!!!
Please any thought?? What do you guys think?
HELP!
I'm sure you don't have much time on your hands with 2 little ones and a 3rd on the way, but if you're ambitious to sew anyway, it might be fun to tackle one or two of these things! A made-by-mama quilt would be a lovely Christmas gift to go on those beautiful new beds. 
