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post #1 of 13
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Out of boredom, I was lurking around a pregnancy board I go to. I see so many signatures with ultrasound pictures of sweet little ones, with "It's a boy!" Some are already named... I imagine how excited the mothers are, and how much they already love their baby boys. Then I remember what those poor newborns are going to have to suffer through and it just breaks my heart! (Some I know are going to be circumcised by the mothers' posts, some I just assume). Right now they are snuggled deeply in their mother's wombs, warm and innocent, their bodies perfectly designed. They have no idea what they will be put through after they make their entrance.

I don't understand how you can carry a child for nine months, and then let someone circumcise him! I just don't understand it at all! After my ultrasound when we found out Matthew was a boy - I was 19 weeks pregnant - I sobbed on the way home thinking of someone circumcising him. I could not bear the thought. How does this happen? I know all - well, most - mothers are just as protective as I am. Do they think that circumcision is not painful (as I used to?)

I am just feeling sort of depressed tonight. I don't know why I feel so protective over children that aren't mine. I just wish I could single-handedly stop circumcision forever.
post #2 of 13
I have had similiar thoughts as you. I just don't get it. I now harming your baby goes against every mothers' instincts, so how do moms do it!? I wish I could help you stop circumcision forever. I wish all it would take was us and it would be over.
post #3 of 13
I have never been so happy as I was when a pregnant friend recently told me she had an ultrasound, and it is a girl.

we had a heated, yet polite discussion recently about how 'of course' she is gunna circ a boy (she had told me she felt very strongly the baby was a boy) and nothing I was saying was swaying her, or even getting past her stony exterior.

I cried with relief after I hung up.
post #4 of 13
I wonder the same thing. I do NOT understand it at all. I just dont get it.......and I NEVER will.

Anytime someone pregnant says they will circ I truly hope and hope and hope they have a girl.

Some people call it judgemental, I call it sympathetic for the CHILD.
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post #6 of 13
Hi Everyone,

I feel exactly the same way. It just baffles me that people will do that to their own child. Everytime I see an infant dressed in blue, I wonder and hope he did not have to endure such torture. And I think to myself, how can anyone do this? It is on my mind often and I would like to help.

How would I get a hold of a local chapter to fight the funding? I live in VA and we still have the medicaid funding here.

Lise
post #7 of 13
"I am just feeling sort of depressed tonight. I don't know why I feel so protective over children that aren't mine. I just wish I could single-handedly stop circumcision forever. "

house elf-
I was feeling exactly the same as you a couple of weeks ago. I was on an ani-cerc website that Mothering referenced in an article and it really got me worked up. I just don't understand how people can do this to their children.
I just want to ask some of these people "do you belive in female circ? will you circ your baby girl?" Girls have a lot more folds and crevices to keep clean than an uncirc boy does, why aren't we cutting our girls too???
I have a friend who is prego now with #2 and I already know that if it's a boy (#1 is a girl) they will circ, because she "just feels that boys are dirty"
Just thinking about her having a boy brings me to tears....
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post #9 of 13

Re: Pondering...

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Originally posted by house elf

I just wish I could single-handedly stop circumcision forever.
Me, too. I think about this so much it hurts. I'm glad someone can relate!
post #10 of 13
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I think about it a lot, too! I am glad I'm not the only weirdo! :LOL (just kidding)
post #11 of 13
I wanted to share: Last year I ran into neighbor friend who walking her newborn son. She said she had to stop and sis in laws to get it, looking like I'd know why.. I said "Why?!?!" Cause he needs it on his penis and I am out." So I responded the same way people do me when they learn DS is not circ'd...I said "Oh my Goodness-WHY-did you do that?!?!?!" I admit it, I gave her look of awe and disgust once given to me...lol... But seriously, I felt so ill...

To this day, I hope it put a lightbulb on in her head...she is preggo again...
post #12 of 13
I think about this a lot, too.

A circ-neutral (despite my best efforts) friend of mine with a very pro-circ husband is pregnant now. I'm *so* hoping that they have another girl!!

peace,
alsoSarah
post #13 of 13
Please don't judge...some moms just don't know that it doesn't have to be done,and they NEED your kind advise (NOT JUDGEMENT). Not trying to stir things up... Now, if you've given them information and facts and they still circ. their babies
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