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choosing a job (not a career)

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i have been out of the job force for 8 years, aside from my work at home businesses which don't really help the resume. i did floral design for one business; the second (current) one is a farm-to-table delivery service of a farm product that is only quasi-legal in my state. i can't expand the business because of trouble with my supplier and pressure from the ag dept on the local farmers. sooooo. . . . i have to choose between low wage jobs now, partly to look good for the judge when we go back to court and also because c/s and maintenance will be a bit less than i'm getting now with the temp order. my degree is in english and women's studies, and i live in a conservative area. therefore i waited tables and bartended before babies. i could take a catering job for 12 bucks an hour where several 4 star chefs work. those chefs are opening their own restaurant in the new year, and if i could wheedle a job there literally 2-3 shifts per week would do us (it's a low col area and 200 buck a shift, at least). that would enable me to continue to homeschool the girls, and pursue freelance writing (i've already been hired to blog for the local rag- doesn't pay but a pittance but good exposure).
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the local health food coop is hiring a coffee / deli mgr. low pay (11 and hour to start) but full benis after 90 days. but it's full time. i'm not sure how i could jump into full time- the kids (7 &4) would freak- my eldest is not ready for public school in math at all, but she is many grade levels ahead in reading. it could be a night job though, and childcare could get tricky for that. i don't know if there is funds in the state childcare assistance pool here still. friends do enjoy working there, because it's so easy- they overstaff people, part of the reason it's so effing expensive to shop there. the other thing about this job is that even though people don't quit often, i would advance there. but i can't see any time to do any writing, and persue that dream, if i worked there. but then again, discounts on organic food!
i guess eventually i could reduce my hours or push for a job share with someone, but. . . . the kids are in an unstable emotional place right now and it seems like if i don't have to go nose to the grindstone right away, that i should transition slowly to work and help them.

what sayest you?
post #2 of 3
From your post it seems like you already have a feeling of what is right for you and the kids. Listen to your gut. Waitress now and worry about a "career" when life is more settled.
post #3 of 3
unfortuantely it all comes down to the finances. if you can work with part time then so be it so.

sometimes the choice you are sharing here is not a choice. v. rarely does one have a choice between full time and part time.

full time is NOT easy and to do it alone is doubly hard. you have to be SUPEr organised ALL the time. i'm not even including your own personal factors - like the health of your kiddos.

you said you are looking for a job - not a career.

if you pick 3 shifts you earn what 600. full time you earn 440?
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