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Originally Posted by Bananas  I just really think he would enjoy being able to attend school a couple days a week to get out and about and actually put his brain to use.
I just feel like I'm not doing him any good in the learning department and he would definately do good with more socialization skills, you know like sharing!!
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Believe me ... I understand what you are going through. When my daughter was young I thought that I was setting her back because all she did was stay at home with her dad (who works nights) all day. And there are some wonderful benefits that any early program can offer ... exposure to different crafts and games, meeting new people, starting to understand structure and routine, etc. But please know that ALL of these things will be learned in time ... regardless of whether or not your son goes to preschool. Even though he is not out and about, he is putting his brain to use every day. Every time you bring him to the grocery store, every time you do some coloring, every time you clear out the fridge ... whatever! Right now his little brain is learning and absorbing at every turn, and his future academic success (and, more importantly, his happiness!) will not be affected adversely by continuing to stay at home with you.
I'm not trying to talk you out of preschool, I just want to reassure you that, without even knowing it, you are already doing him a lot of good in the learning department!
Also ... since state-funded preschools are not readily available ... perhaps you can think of other ways to give your son (and you!) exposure to new and different activities. Perhaps you can organize a playgroup with some other local moms. Just a couple of hours a day a week ... you could alternate whose house you go to ... get enough moms involved and you'd only have to "host" once a month or so. Also, there are usually great activities at the local libraries and museums, and some art galleries and stores have activities (especially around the holidays) as well. All of this would require a lot of coordination on your part, but could easily fill a 2 - 4 hour block a couple of days a week (which is what it sounds like you are looking for).
Anyway ... whatever you decide to do, please don't beat yourself up over hindering his learning. Just be with him and talk with him and play with him and love him and he will grow into a happy and curious boy who is excited about the process of learning.
All my best,
Christine
