I have a very bright 9 year old boy who has essentially been unschooled, not due to my own convictions but because he tolerates no less. He is very self-motivated and curious; he strenuously resists instruction. As an example, he completely taught himself to read somewhere between ages 5 and 7, with zero instruction, games, DVDs...just out of the blue; he reads on a very high level. I tried introducing phonics games and DVDs but he shut me down very quickly. It's just how he is.
So, I see that he reads very well, writes well and has a very good general base of information (history, science, etc). The one glaring gap that I see is math. And math is something that I have always struggled with and loathed, so it's not like an easy thing for me to play with or talk about.
I had tried Singapore math worksheets but he complained and moaned about it being boring. I discovered he could do multiple digit subtraction but in an unconventional way (taking away tens and stuff, probably much more intuitive than my grasp of numbers). It is my impression that he has a very natural knack with numbers, much like his father (who is a computer programmer). But I know he has glaring gaps in his math understanding. I'm sure he can divide, for example, but not do long division. I'm sure he doesn't understand decimal places, but could quickly pick it up. Ditto for fractions.
As I've said, I would not have chosen unschooling but it was the only kind way of treating him due to his strenuous resistance to instruction. Now that he would be in 4th grade, I'm trying to move a little bit away from that. It sounds silly but I've had some nightmares lately about our homeschooling and I guess what is my discomfort with the math issue.
What I am looking for are recommendations for the best math curric for a child his age to *self-teach*. I wondered about Math-u-see. It has to be something that he can sit and do himself, because that's what he likes. And he seems to be a very visual kid, so it needs to be something like that. I already have my eye on Borenson's "Hands on Equations" for basic algebra which I'm confident he could do. But I really want to address the gaps I'm sure he has in basic arithmetic. It has to be something he can self-teach, ideally something hands-on and something with a very minimum of repetition.
Thanks for any advice you have.
So, I see that he reads very well, writes well and has a very good general base of information (history, science, etc). The one glaring gap that I see is math. And math is something that I have always struggled with and loathed, so it's not like an easy thing for me to play with or talk about.
I had tried Singapore math worksheets but he complained and moaned about it being boring. I discovered he could do multiple digit subtraction but in an unconventional way (taking away tens and stuff, probably much more intuitive than my grasp of numbers). It is my impression that he has a very natural knack with numbers, much like his father (who is a computer programmer). But I know he has glaring gaps in his math understanding. I'm sure he can divide, for example, but not do long division. I'm sure he doesn't understand decimal places, but could quickly pick it up. Ditto for fractions.
As I've said, I would not have chosen unschooling but it was the only kind way of treating him due to his strenuous resistance to instruction. Now that he would be in 4th grade, I'm trying to move a little bit away from that. It sounds silly but I've had some nightmares lately about our homeschooling and I guess what is my discomfort with the math issue.
What I am looking for are recommendations for the best math curric for a child his age to *self-teach*. I wondered about Math-u-see. It has to be something that he can sit and do himself, because that's what he likes. And he seems to be a very visual kid, so it needs to be something like that. I already have my eye on Borenson's "Hands on Equations" for basic algebra which I'm confident he could do. But I really want to address the gaps I'm sure he has in basic arithmetic. It has to be something he can self-teach, ideally something hands-on and something with a very minimum of repetition.
Thanks for any advice you have.








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