i'm pretty sure the answer is yes, if he just fails to respond, it still happens. but . . i'm just in a weird place at the moment! he's attempting to make plans to move to a foreign country (not permanently, just on a work visa) where some friends of ours are. talking with them about it openly on facebook (i know, i know, i shouldn't be reading his fb stuff but i'm glad i found this out!) . . . and telling others that certain things need to be wrapped up within this brief (imo!) time frame before he moves half-way around the world.
it boggles my mind, as a parent. i can't imagine leaving your kids like that, just because, just on a whim.
he probably won't do it, because he's always making big plans, he's all talk and no action. but still. it amazes me that he's considering it. of course, a part of me would be overjoyed - for myself - but mostly i would just be sad for my kids.
it boggles my mind, as a parent. i can't imagine leaving your kids like that, just because, just on a whim.
he probably won't do it, because he's always making big plans, he's all talk and no action. but still. it amazes me that he's considering it. of course, a part of me would be overjoyed - for myself - but mostly i would just be sad for my kids.
he called me tonight and told me all about it! i just hold my tongue. several years into our relationship, i figured out that i was never going to be able to get him to see the light on anything by talking about it. i'd just let him proceed with his half-baked ideas, find out it's hard and lose interest.
Is there a smilie to show the world revolving around your stbx's head?
