My third daughter, age 5, is doing wonderfully in kindergarten. Her teacher has not reported any problems, but I have observed something in her since toddlerhood that I have not been able to figure out.
Most simply put... She has a tendency not to hear me or anyone. Today I was watching her play with her siblings and a man walked by with a dog. Interested in the dog, she fell into step behind the man. I called to her. Then I shouted her name. Then screamed her name. Her sister joined in. At that point I had to haul a** and sprint to her. She was already out of sight. When I asked her why she didn't stop when I called her, she said tearfully that she had not heard me.
This has been a constant problem. It manifests when she is focused on something. A picture she's drawing, a game she's playing, a stranger's dog... If anything has her attention, nothing else can break through. She becomes hyper-focused on things like art projects and video games.
At first I thought maybe her hearing was a problem, so I had her checked. Twice. Just fine. Then I thought maybe she was just being stubborn, but as her communication improves it seems out of character for her to deliberately ignore me.
Other characteristics, such as screaming and being frustrated often, could just be the result of having two older sisters, but I often wonder. Her social behaviors seem otherwise normal.
Tonight, out of pure curiosity, I slid behind her while she was playing with her brother and shouted "boo" in her ear.... nothing. She didn't even turn around and acknowledge me.
My boyfriend is a teacher at a school for children with learning difficulties, and he suggested she may have an information processing disorder. His area is to teach such children, though, not to diagnose. My research does not reveal symptoms that match hers.
I was hoping someone could offer insight?
eta: Her father and sister have AS, but I don't see any parallels here.
Most simply put... She has a tendency not to hear me or anyone. Today I was watching her play with her siblings and a man walked by with a dog. Interested in the dog, she fell into step behind the man. I called to her. Then I shouted her name. Then screamed her name. Her sister joined in. At that point I had to haul a** and sprint to her. She was already out of sight. When I asked her why she didn't stop when I called her, she said tearfully that she had not heard me.
This has been a constant problem. It manifests when she is focused on something. A picture she's drawing, a game she's playing, a stranger's dog... If anything has her attention, nothing else can break through. She becomes hyper-focused on things like art projects and video games.
At first I thought maybe her hearing was a problem, so I had her checked. Twice. Just fine. Then I thought maybe she was just being stubborn, but as her communication improves it seems out of character for her to deliberately ignore me.
Other characteristics, such as screaming and being frustrated often, could just be the result of having two older sisters, but I often wonder. Her social behaviors seem otherwise normal.
Tonight, out of pure curiosity, I slid behind her while she was playing with her brother and shouted "boo" in her ear.... nothing. She didn't even turn around and acknowledge me.
My boyfriend is a teacher at a school for children with learning difficulties, and he suggested she may have an information processing disorder. His area is to teach such children, though, not to diagnose. My research does not reveal symptoms that match hers.
I was hoping someone could offer insight?
eta: Her father and sister have AS, but I don't see any parallels here.
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