Even though I never planned to bed share, my 8.5 week old refuses to sleep anywhere but next to me. She won't even sleep in the cosleeper we have attached to the side of the bed, a mere 8 inches away from me...
Anyway, my question is about swaddling and bedsharing. I'd like to swaddle DD, b/c she still has a really strong startle reflex, which I think is contributing to her frequent night wakings. However, I feel like I read somewhere that I'm not supposed to swaddle her if I'm bedsharing (I can't remember where /i read this, unfortunately...)
So, what do you do? Do you swaddle if you're bed sharing? Or is it safer not to?
TIA
Anyway, my question is about swaddling and bedsharing. I'd like to swaddle DD, b/c she still has a really strong startle reflex, which I think is contributing to her frequent night wakings. However, I feel like I read somewhere that I'm not supposed to swaddle her if I'm bedsharing (I can't remember where /i read this, unfortunately...)
So, what do you do? Do you swaddle if you're bed sharing? Or is it safer not to?
TIA







