I was getting ds out of the tub in the morning and wiped his nose (he has allergies just like myself and our dd's) and dh made some comment like, "well he wouldn't be sick if he had some of his vax's!" I asked him if he just said what I thought he did and he repeated it again. I blatantly told him the comment was stupid and when he joined me back in reality to let me know.
Yesterday and today he has been making little comments here and there about it and today I flat out asked him what his deal was. He then asked me if we were EVER going to do any shots and I told him NO. This has been discussed in the past and case closed. He was then trying to push me saying we need to at least get the MMR because people can DIE without it. I stood my ground and told him over my dead body would I EVER inject another one of my children with that poison. Did he forget that was the shot that turned dd1 into a seizure ridden mess for over a year, and we are still dealing with the behavioral issues 4 yrs later?! I told him I run a bigger risk of losing him (dh) in a car accident because he likes to be a speed demon (only when alone, I punch him in the arm if he even goes 5mph over with me and the kids) than I do of having ds die from a VPD. So do us both a favor and stop beating a dead horse. Decision was made jointly, implemented jointly, so case is CLOSED.
I'm guessing all this crap is coming from MIL. He has been talking to her more over the past week then in a long time. She is always trying to have authority over our kids. She can't accept the fact that they were born from MY body and NOT HERS.
It's just so freaking frustrating!!!! And I feel like I really need to some sense back into dh. UGH!