I've never known of anyone in real life who had more student loan debt than the 87k that DH and I had. The people I know who went to med school and law school were from wealthy families, so they didn't have to borrow.
Selesai, I know what you mean about feeling stifled. That is why we did nothing but pay it off until it was gone. We would have loved to start a family right away, but not under that pile of debt. So we worked and worked and lived very carefully to be done with it. We were finally able to start that family about 8 or 9 years later.
I can't imagine what the wait would have been like if we took turns going to school so that one of us could work to pay for the other. Or if we did it part time so we could work. 8 years of waiting was long enough! If we had had to wait to start a family at 40, we never would have had children.
Selesai, I know what you mean about feeling stifled. That is why we did nothing but pay it off until it was gone. We would have loved to start a family right away, but not under that pile of debt. So we worked and worked and lived very carefully to be done with it. We were finally able to start that family about 8 or 9 years later.
I can't imagine what the wait would have been like if we took turns going to school so that one of us could work to pay for the other. Or if we did it part time so we could work. 8 years of waiting was long enough! If we had had to wait to start a family at 40, we never would have had children.







I was pretty hardcore about paying it off
. It took me about five years.



