Oh, and as for ex's parents... once things started getting bad between ex and I they made it clear that they were not going to get involved...fine, I understand. I did call them and let them know that, while I don't know what involvement ex will have, I have no intention of keeping them from hearing about or seeing their grandbaby when s/he is born. I let them know that they are free to call me any time if they would like to know how s/he is doing. This was nearly two months ago. They have yet to call. Honestly...I'm not that disappointed. I'm probably going to send his mother an email and let her know how baby's doing, and give her my contact information (just a "Ex hasn't asked me, so obviously he can't relay it to you, so I wanted to let you know baby is doing well, blah blah blah, and if you ever want to check in here is my contact info" and reiterate what I said about not wanting to keep them from being involved)...and then just leave it at that. Of course I'll be doing it AFTER I get the rest of my stuff from ex's place, JUST in case he gets mad about it and decides to use it as an excuse to burn more of my stuff. Ugh.
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10/27/10 at 10:56pm