Postive Thoughts Needed :( UPDATE 11/14 now to wait for chromosome testing - Page 7

[BarefootScientist]

Sorry for your loss mama.   

[Tumble Bumbles]

So very sorry mama. I know we all were praying for a different outcome for you. You're in our thoughts and prayers.

[gwerydd]

I'm so sorry.

[SoCaliMommy]

 It's not over ..........went the the appointment i had already set up and ultrasound still showed tissue measuring 6wk1day, I  got a prescription for Cytotec to take. I was told after i pass the tissue to set up a follow up appointment. The dr dismissed my concern for wanting to have testing done saying they wouldn't be able to because the tissue has started to disinagrate * rolling eyes*.  She said that the other tissue was probably the placenta... last i checked i'm pretty sure it's not tan in color like that tissue was and how any testing done on that tissue probably wouldn't tell much.

[weliveintheforest]

I'm so sorry to read that this is not over, and that the doctor was dismissive of you  Do you have the support you need?  Can someone take the kids and stuff?

[ryleeee]

so sorry you have to go through all this

[swimming-duck]

So sorry to hear this update. I'm so very sorry for your loss.

[mama_daba]

so sorry

[SoCaliMommy]

 My mom mentioned taking the kids tonight after they finish with the big garage sale they are having  that will last til 2pm.

I took my first dose of Cytotec yesterday at 3:36pm and it didn't do anything other than some mild cramping that i'd say was at about a pain level of a 4 way  managable and the bleeding seemed to tapper off to almost nothing on a pad even overnight. I am feeling like the 2nd dose wont to anything and that i'm in the % of where it just doesn't work at all.

[SoCaliMommy]

Today 11/14 at what would  have been 10wks i'm 100% i passed the the tissue that the ultrasound showed was still there, my bleeding was down to like nothing, no cramping at all when i passed it either. I don't think the Cytotec had anything to do with me passing the tissue today.

 I have it in a zip lock bag with some water, and plan on calling the appointment line at 7am tomorrow ( we have Kaiser) and trying to get a appointment with the Dr the ER told me i could follow up with since we aren't fully moved out of this area yet, i plan on having them do testing on the tissue. I want answers this is my 2nd missed miscarriage and this baby took 3 years to get pregnant with.

Edited by SoCaliMommy - 11/15/10 at 11:39am

[Buddhamom]

I hope this nightmare is finally over for you, I truly do!

[seafox]

I'm so sorry. I was checking back here often, I remember you from the nursing TTC mama's thread. Thinking of you

[agmi]

I've just noticed your signature, Kami...  I am so sorry for your loss, take a good care of yourself. Lots of prayers are with you