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post #21 of 29
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Originally Posted by mtiger View Post
No, you're not. I don't care how old a kid is when they come to my door on Halloween - but I expect that they've made an effort at a costume. If they can't be bothered to do so? They can walk away without a treat.
post #22 of 29
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Originally Posted by Kreeblim View Post
I LOVE seeing costumes like that! I hope this is OK to link here, but I saw this a while ago and I keep thinking about how awesome this must have been!

http://www.flickr.com/photos/docpopular/4063790568/
LOVE it. I wish I could do something like that, but our TorT night was last night.
post #23 of 29
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Originally Posted by Kreeblim View Post
I LOVE seeing costumes like that! I hope this is OK to link here, but I saw this a while ago and I keep thinking about how awesome this must have been!

http://www.flickr.com/photos/docpopular/4063790568/
THAT IS AWESOME!! Love it. LOVE.
post #24 of 29
Yep, no costume no treat here And if my kids are too old to dress up, then they are welcome to hand out candy while I take a hot bath and read a book
post #25 of 29
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Originally Posted by Juvysen View Post
it's too cold here in upstate ny (most halloweens) to see too many teen trick-or-treaters in anything too sexy but I do recall going to some halloween parties dressed, uh, less than appropriately for the weather when I was in college.

I haven't gotten a lot of trick-or-treaters at my door in NO costume, but I did get some pretty creative twists on regular old clothing... which I actually loved. One teen came here (with a group of younger kids) wearing all these signs pinned all over... one to her shirt, one to her hat, etc... each said something like "hat, $20" "shirt, $15" and then there was a sign pinned to her back saying "going trick or treating? priceless" or something like that. She was a mastercard commercial. Awesome! Takes so much more mental effort to come up with something like that than to just grab a costume off a rack, you know?
We were at a Halloween party for the kids on Friday, and I saw a kid who had a tree branch duct-taped to his baseball cap, so that the leaves fell sort of over his forehead. When I asked what he was, he took a deep breath and blew, so that the leaves fluttered, and said he was a leaf blower. LOVED IT. Another girl had a baby doll taped to her backside, and told me she was a babysitter, and illustrated by sitting down-- on the doll, of course. That one had me a little doubtful, but you gotta give her credit for creativity.

That said- I don't quibble about costumes. I used to trick or treat as a teenager with no costume. I would give candy to any kid who came to the door, unless he was there for like his fifth or sixth time that same night. And if my kids were older, and wanted to go out without a costume-- whatever. What's the big deal? It's not worth the argument, to me. But I'm glad the OP found a compromise that she and her DS were comfortable with.
post #26 of 29
I also think it's rude not to wear a costume. Even some attempt at a costume.

We get what we call "imports". (people from another neighborhood) who come in huge vans full of people. They never wear costumes, and even the adults carry a plastic grocery bag and ask for candy. It' slightly offensive.... although, there was a nice looking 40-ish year old man who came asking for candy. I didn't mind that so much.
post #27 of 29
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My 15 yo and 13 yo are young enough to want the fun of walking the neighborhood, but yeah, their peers would totally make fun of them for dressing up unless the costume was horribly gory or sexy.
That's too bad. We had neighbor teens trick or treat here last night who were dressed like Frankenstein and a ghost. Not gory or sexy.
post #28 of 29
I would not want to give out candy to kids to lazy to not dress up.Unfortunately the result of not giving candy might be an egged house or worse!

It sounds like some of the neighborhood kids need to move on from ToT.Suggest a party for tweens that do not want to dress up,but want to have fun.
post #29 of 29
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Originally Posted by happysmileylady View Post
I agree. If it's too embarrassing to wear a costume, then it's too embarrassing to go beg candy from others
I so agree!
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