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I told him I might break up with him

post #1 of 5
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His response was we'll figure it out. right now we're just friends with benefits. Maybe he likes me more than I think.

He knows I meeting other guys. I actually want like a casual relationship. So, if it does happen, I will have to break things off. I wont cheat.

The reason it might get complicated because I'm helping him financially.
post #2 of 5

From the little you said, it sounds like he doesn't want to face the idea of you leaving him. Perhaps you could look a little deeper to see why you want to leave? Is the romance gone? (It can most likely be revived.)

 

I don't have a lot to say (having two failures under my belt) but I was hoping if I replied it would bump your post and someone who has really good advice could help you.

post #3 of 5
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i heard from him recently.  Yes, I do think he's not up to the idea of me leavin' him yet.  He's the one that iniates the contact and I respond.  When he sees me, he's all sweet and charming

post #4 of 5

I would stop helping him financially, and see what happens. From your posts, it doesn't seem like you're too into him. See other people, do what feels right to you.

post #5 of 5

True, if the financial help stopped, he might decide to accept a breakup. Just like a woman often stays in a relationship for financial reasons/fears, he might be, too.

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