Hooray LivingSky!!!!!! I never doubted you'd see that second line with such a pretty chart!
ValH: I really thought your chart looked great--heck, other than the bleeding part, it still looks great. (I think if it were me seeing that, I'd be still hoping for it to be implantation....especially since it's a shorter-than-usual LP for you...but I know it's heartbreaking to keep hoping). Anyway, assuming this is, indeed, AF, I'm so sorry! *hug* I hope you can get a few answers from your doctor.
Boots: You asked about BDing...we don't schedule at all. DH is basically out of the loop unless he asks, and he doesn't much--so no pressure on him. I do initiate sex a lot more, though, around O... I have found I have a HUGE surge in libido a few days before O, and I just go with that as an indicator--I tried OPKs, but honestly I find my sex drive more reliable and easier to use. I kind of shoot for every day I'm feeling it, but I don't force it.
Taxlady: You asked what I did/how I felt... If I'm guessing O day right, the big secret seems to have been DH and I getting quite drunk on a good night and having way too much fun... :) but my chart is a little odd around O, so maybe it was another, more boring night? As to how I feel...I still feel nothing. I have no symptoms. My breasts are the opposite of sore. No uterine twinges, no cravings or nausea....just nothing. I have to pee a lot, but I always have to pee a lot! It's a little worrying, honestly. I had more symptoms with both the other pregnancies...and tons more symptoms when AF was coming instead...
Calycanth, Teetina, Bel, and probably a bunch of other people too: Thanks for the emotional support. I'm all discombobulated, it seems. I'm trying so hard to focus on the positives, but it's one of things where I think I'm trying TOO hard, if you know what I mean. I have a yoga class tonight, though, and often that really helps me find a bit of serenity.
I kept waking up last night convinced it was a false positive, or that it's just leftover hcg from the m/c...any number of things. I am trying to decide if I want to call my OB yet....I'm a little afraid she'll yell at me for getting pregnant again without skipping a cycle. But I think I want to get the betas done, just so there's something tangible I can believe in. For now, I'm just clinging to my high temps...and I really don't want to get into a place where I obsess over every .01F...
Anyway, I'm not planning on moving to a DDC anytime too soon, though I might admit to lurking a tiny bit... :)