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Free range parenting??

I admit it, the other thread got me questioning this. What exactly is free range parenting. I have no clue what that is.

Also, what is

Nurturing Heart Approach??

Once again, saw a post and have absolutley no clue. Help me out please.

And if anyone knows of other styles I will see that maybe I have no clue about, could we do a preemptive strike and just let me know about them now.
post #2 of 4
Don't know about Nurturing Heart Approach, but Free Range Parenting is a term coined by an author (Lenore Skenazy) in her book. Basically, the premise is the world is just as safe, if not safer, than it was 30 years ago and yet modern parents keep a tighter reign on their kids than ever. Not letting them "roam free" as the title suggests, but just being overprotective in general. And doing that is harmful to our kids development. Being free to run and play and learn with other kids, without adult supervision, is what breeds confidence and maturity. I'm missing some big points here, but you get the gist.

I loved the book - and although I'm not fully a free range parent, I consciously stop myself when I start parenting based on fear. Our 4 and 5 year old have the run of the block and knock on their friends doors, roam, and know to come in when it starts to get dark. They know their boundaries (no crossing the street for the 4 yo, no going in anyone's house without asking first, etc). But otherwise, it's totally kid world out there.
post #3 of 4
No idea about Nurturing Heart, but free range:
Basically, if you grew up in the western world (US, Canada, most of western Europe, etc), it's giving our kids the childhood we had, rather than conforming to the push to "hyperparent," ie schedule every minute of the kid's day, watch them constantly, never allow them to be alone or do anything independently, stranger danger, etc. Free ranging is parenting based on reality and reasonable boundaries, as well as education and equipment of the child to deal with reality, rather than parenting out of sensationalised fear and paranoia and simply sheltering them away from the "big mean world."

I think it's more a reactionary thing, for parents who live in the burbs and have seen the decline of community, the absurd paranoia, the crazy security measures, the stress parents put on kids.

I'm pretty free range. We live in a tiny town. We know almost everyone who's year-round. I'm a little less free range in the summer simply because of the influx of tourists right near our house at the beach. In any case, my two oldest (and 8yr old and 6yr old, if they're together) have a 2km/20 minute's walk boundary from our house. Which is pretty much the entire town, LOL. Lots of parents around here are more free range by default. Kids are out and about and play with each other like they did when I was young. Kids aren't really hyperparented en masse here (maybe we just lack stuff for them to schedule them into every second of every day), but they sure were back in the UK. I guess time hasn't caught up with our town and parents don't really have any fears that cause them to not let their kids out.
post #4 of 4
http://freerangekids.wordpress.com/

I would say I am a free range momma. I won't speak for anyone else, but for myself, free range is everyday life, allowing my children real life experience, so they can learn and have confidence in themselves.
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