So, DD is 3.5 mos. She is SUPER active when we are holding her or if she is laying down. But, she HATES tummy time. DH and I can already tell she will be a "spirited girl" once she's up and walking (see below) but doesn't she have to crawl first? Do we have to put her on her tummy every day if she hates it? It makes her cry. 
some background if you're interested.
She LOVES to lay on her back on a blanket and chatter with anyone who will listen, while kicking and waving her arms something fierce! we dangle little soft toys for her, and she will bat and grab at them (sometimes even successfully getting one to her mouth!) If we hold her up, so her head is over our shoulders, she will push off of our arms or laps with her feet, and almost jump over a shoulder. She's been doing this since abt 6 weeks, no exaggeration. She can support her own weight her legs, on a lap or the floor if someone is just keeping her upright.
But, if we roll her onto her tummy, even if she is alert, happy and active, she will just grunt, and eventually cry. She has great head control, and can lift her head off the floor. She can even lift part of her upper torso off the floor if we leave her there. But she doesnt like it at all!! She can roll from back to front sometimes, though not consistently. She's working on it though. if she gets mad enough, she will start to roll from front to back but, generally gives up and just cries. I feel like I'm just making her upset unnecessarily. What can we do? She "gets" that pushing off will move her, she even pulls her feet/legs under herself and then pushes them out again when on her tummy, but just hasnt gained enough traction yet with her feet. But the whole time, she's giving her "I'm annoyed" grunts and whimpers. it's sad.
Any experienced mamas have any advice for this newbie?
some background if you're interested.
She LOVES to lay on her back on a blanket and chatter with anyone who will listen, while kicking and waving her arms something fierce! we dangle little soft toys for her, and she will bat and grab at them (sometimes even successfully getting one to her mouth!) If we hold her up, so her head is over our shoulders, she will push off of our arms or laps with her feet, and almost jump over a shoulder. She's been doing this since abt 6 weeks, no exaggeration. She can support her own weight her legs, on a lap or the floor if someone is just keeping her upright.
But, if we roll her onto her tummy, even if she is alert, happy and active, she will just grunt, and eventually cry. She has great head control, and can lift her head off the floor. She can even lift part of her upper torso off the floor if we leave her there. But she doesnt like it at all!! She can roll from back to front sometimes, though not consistently. She's working on it though. if she gets mad enough, she will start to roll from front to back but, generally gives up and just cries. I feel like I'm just making her upset unnecessarily. What can we do? She "gets" that pushing off will move her, she even pulls her feet/legs under herself and then pushes them out again when on her tummy, but just hasnt gained enough traction yet with her feet. But the whole time, she's giving her "I'm annoyed" grunts and whimpers. it's sad.
Any experienced mamas have any advice for this newbie?
and my DD really liked it, especially the crinklely parts. It was great because she would entertain herself there for like a half hour. Unfortunately for me, it was only a month before she started rolling off the mat and across the whole room so we ended up graduating to a sheet on the floor with her toys on it. She does still use the mat sometimes but gets mad when she rolls into the arches. We've repurposed it now, upside down, as a means to block the TV so she won't see it if we happen to be watching it (we don't let her watch the "baby crack" aka the TV 
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