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Screaming?

post #1 of 9
Thread Starter 
My 8.5 month old daughter LOVES to scream. Not when she's crying, usually when she wants attention, but I can't give her my attention 24/7 like she wants me to. Also when she gets frustrated.

I've tried simply not responding at all, instead of making a huge fuss about it, but she hasn't gotten tired of it yet. It wouldn't be such a big deal if DH didn't sleep during the day. I haven't been able to give her tummy time lately because she really wants to crawl but can't so she starts screaming and I have to pick her up so she doesn't wake DH.

I don't know what to do anymore, I've tried telling her "no screaming," and I've tried gently covering her mouth while saying that, I just don't know what else to do.
post #2 of 9
Both my boys are screamers. Headache giving screamers. DS2 so far is only when he's mad or upset. DS1 though screamed lots. Honestly, I never found anything I could do. I just had to wait it out.
post #3 of 9
She will out grow it. In the mean time get a good carrier so you can go about your chores. You can also sit on the floor with her. My dd loves to "help" with the laundry. I toss her a few things and let her play with it while I fold. Dishes? If she is being really clingy she's on my back. I try to do what I can when I can and realize that it will pass. You could also trying going for a walk when you know she is going to be real noisy. I feel like that really helps me to get out if the house for a bit and re centers me when I feel overwhelmed.
post #4 of 9
Thread Starter 
*Sigh!* I was hoping not to hear any "she'll outgrow it responses." Lol. She's already been through the screaming phase twice before!

I have back issues so I've actually been trying to do less carrying. We can't really afford for me to go back to the physical therapist again in the middle of the holiday season. I do try and make sure we get outside almost every day though.
post #5 of 9


does you dh wear earplugs to sleep? that may reduce your stress about it.
post #6 of 9
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Originally Posted by PatioGardener View Post


does you dh wear earplugs to sleep? that may reduce your stress about it.
Yep I would also try that. I have found usually ignoring the unwanted is the best deterrent. Also try distraction. DS used to love tv remote. So i would give him something else when i took it away.
post #7 of 9
Oh and the nicer carriers like the Ergo, Beco or Baby Hawk are pretty easy on the back.
post #8 of 9
Thread Starter 
Ear plugs are a good idea!

I do have an Ergo and it has helped tremendously over the cheap carrier I had before. After the holidays I'm going to need to go back to the physical therapist though, just to fix me up again and then hopefully using the Ergo will ensure that I won't have anymore problems.

I guess I'll go back to ignoring it. It worked the first two times she went through this phase, but here lately it seems like she's never going to quit!
post #9 of 9

Yep, we are there too! One of my twins is a LOUD screamer. If I put her upstairs and close the door, go down stairs, close the door and go into the kitchen I can still hear her...and I am hard of hearing!!! Carrying her doesn't help, she just keeps screaming away. I did have another momma suggest carrying her on my back so she can see what is going on, going to try that today. Oh and ear plugs did nothing too, we could still hear her loud and clear! All I can say is we are 2 months into the screaming phase with no end in sight :(

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