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Ambidexterous

post #1 of 5
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After being what I considered right-handed (though not above using his left hand for drawing and writing) ds has suddenly decided he wants to use both hands equally. The first I noticed this was during the summer when we had a psycho-educational evaluation done and the psychologist noted that he was left-handed. I was surprised (and felt really dumb )!

On his recent report card his teacher noted that sometimes his printed work is hard to decipher and I have also been noticing how messy his handwriting is. It's not something I've ever cared about too much but to me it seems to be getting messier - it's worse now than when he was in grade 1! (he's in grade 3) And this is when he writes with his left hand which he has been doing consistently at home.

What prompted me to write this now is that I just heard him on the phone to my mom and he was telling her how he writes with his right hand in the morning with teacher A and then uses his left hand in the afternoon with teacher B (they have two teachers half-time each). I'm not sure what to make of this. When I ask him why he uses each hand he just says because he wants to. In the past I know he has switched hands when one gets tired.

Should I discourage this? I'm really hesitant to do that and, like I said, neat handwriting isn't a huge priority for me. But I am starting to wonder if I should make some suggestions to him about settling on a hand. Not sure if this has anything to do with it as we've never made a big deal out of it but I am left handed and dh is right handed.

Thanks for any advice!
post #2 of 5
First off, he sounds funny! One hand with one teacher and he switches in the afternoon - too bad he doesn't have an identical twin!

Anyway, I am ambidexterous and knew early on that it was sort of a cool trick. Loads of fun in college with darts

Anyway, I might ask him which is his favorite hand to write with, play sports with, etc. and go with that...one of my boys is ambidexterous and loves baseball and I finally had to pin him down when he got older and gloves got more expensive!!!
post #3 of 5
I am and I wish my parents let me switch hands more. I have some sports I play left handed and some I play right. I can eat with both. My handwriting is poor with both hands, I am like one grade lower handwriting wise with my left, which I never used. I think I may have done better had I been allowed to use it.

I distinctly remember being in school and being told I had to pick one, looked at the other kids and saw they all used their right and did that.

Now I use both, but only I can read it.
post #4 of 5
My DH is ambi. He eats left handed but can easily switch if he needs to. He mostly writes left-handed but right handed is legible with effort. He cuts hair right handed (professionally for awhile) and plays some sports right handed and some sports left handed. I've encouraged my kids to always try things both ways. Some of them are like Sh and do some activities with one hand and other things with the other hand. I think it is awesome and helps them develop both sides of their brain.
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Oh he's a funny kid all right!!

I agree about developing both sides of your body and brain. I do think part of why he's doing it is he just thinks it's neat. I'm left handed but do some things right handed, too, and went through a phase of brushing my teeth with my right hand - just for something different.

I will just leave him for now then! Thanks!
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