But, dd is 13 and is adamant about moving! I understand this, I moved quite a lot as a child. But, I know 13 is a tough age and she'd be starting high school in a new school district (she used to homeschool and is only in her second year back in school...however...she says she doesn't want to HS again, even if we move).
Any advice on how I can ease this transistion for her? It's really HARD. If the topic even comes up, she ends up in tears OTOH, we're looking at getting a horse or two for our family and the only way we could do this is to move. We've looked in our area but there is not much out there...it's also a pricey area, high taxes too...even with the idea of getting horses (and her beloved cows) she still isn't open to it at all. At times I see that she might be, or at least has accepted it, but then, that window shuts and she just says she doesn't want to move! She wants to stay her all her life! And, that is just not going to happen. We've thought about waiting until she is out of high school but that is 5 years away. But, for finanical reasons we really need to move before then.
Sorry this got so long! Thanks for reading.