My son will be 6 next month and the school has requested us to participate in the Conners 3 evaluation. Has anyone else gone through this?
My son has always been very fidgety. His focus lacks in things where he is disinterested. We had a meeting with the school last week and she told us that sometimes he gets up from his seat, and jumps up and down on the spot. Well I know this, he does it at home to. He gets a burst of energy and needs to release it. Anyways, they never said "ADHD" but they asked us to participate in an evaluation process and handed us a booklet to fill out. It's called Conners 3 and I googled it and it is pretty clear that it is a tool to determine possible ADHD, or learning disability. Our son is great at focusing on some things, like lego or x-box, or coloring. There are also days when he does great in school and others when the teacher writes in his journal that he had a hard time holding his focus. So what's next? What can we expect? My husband is adament that we will NOT resort to drug therapy. Our son is learning by all means, he is just a little bit behind the other kids. Are we expected to get him put on medication at some point just to keep him up to par with his peers? I'm really scared right now. Myself and my 3 silblings all had difficulty in school, but we managed quite well. We are all very sucessful, two are engineers and 1 is a nurse and i'm a financial manager. None of us had help in the 60's and 70's for our inability to focus. Instead we were accused of not wanting to learn, trouble makers, that sort of thing. Anyways, my DH said he would home school or DS before anything else. Is there a support group somewhere on these boards for parents of ADHD kids?
Thanks for any feedback!










