Our kids are 26 months apart. Â Originally we were thinking more like 5 years, since I have a few friends doing it this way and it seems to work for them.... but then I lost my job and was unemployed last year, so we decided to do the whole pregnancy thing without having to deal with maternity leave, working etc. Â My husband kind of wanted it this way anyway so we could get all the baby-having done while all the gear was still around, and then move on.
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So far my older one LOVES LOVES LOVES her younger sister, to the point that it can be overwhelming for her younger sister. If my older one is near a tartrum, often if we just bring the little one in the room it diffuses the escalation. Â It is hard work with such little girls right now, but I hope it will pay off with them being close as they get older.... time will tell.






