where am i headed? my family and marriage are everything to me, but i need to know what is happening with my life. especially my marriage. thank you!
marriage and family
i wasn't sure if i was specific enough. sorry. my husband i just can't seem to get along these past few years. we get things smoothed out and then it gets bumpy again. i wish that i could understand it all, but i don't. there are times when i would like to stop the whole thing and move on, but with two kiddos, a home and a family, it isn't that easy.
thanks for the help.
I feel that you and your husband will stick it out for the long run. The problem that I see is that you don't have a connection to each other on a Spiritual level. You have become roomates of sorts. You can and often do work well together, pushing forward through life. But there's not a strong sense of Union for a bigger purpose. Life becomes drudgery when you are just focused on the day to day trials. When you are not enjoying something more with each other, a deeper meaning, the relationship to one another can lose it's value. Not every couple needs a Spiritual connection together. But I think you two do. I encourage you to seek that out as a couple in order to bring yourselves together in unison once again.