..along with a few other things, I suppose, but this is NOT HELPING.
My youngest is 20mo, I've had 6 cycles total since her birth, started back up about 13mo. Things seem to be getting mostly back to normal as far as length goes, but I have EWCM from like day 7 all the way until a few days before my next period. DD is still nursing regularly, I usually go a full 6 hours at night without nursing. We have almost no safe days at all, and I HATE HATE HATE condoms.
I did two cycles temping, then this last one I didn't do it because there was so much sleep disturbance from my DD that I couldn't ever get anything accurate. Even when I do temp, the temps don't line up at all with my CM - I have EW well beyond the temp peak. My CP also is all over the place and doesn't really line up with anything.
We absolutely do not want any more children right now. I've got two and I am emotionally tapped out and, for the moment, it's all my relationship with DH can handle too. We are being extra extra careful, which essentially means that we are DTD about once every 3 weeks at this point, when I would much prefer every day or every other day. My libido is crazy high these days (DH is not keeping up with me, which is part of the problem).
He feels put off by the fact that I don't want to do BCP, I feel put off by the fact that he won't trust this method, although I don't know why he would since we can't ever get anything reliable out of it and we already have two unplanned kids from being misinformed (and naive, I suppose).
I am looking into hypothyroidism, which TCOYF says is a possibility with really long mucus cycles, but I also have very low BBT, around 96 F at the beginning of my cycles. I have no other symptoms though.
I'm hoping someone more experienced can help me out here.