LOL! Silly, isn't it?? STBX (I guess) & I have lived apart for about 4 months now, but nothing permanent has been decided and nothing legal has been done (I need to find work/insurance first!). We're still friendly, he's come down several times to see the little ones and so forth.
He shocked me the last time he was down by not having his wedding band on; I felt so angry & disrespected and it was a complete surprise. We're still married, not even legally separated, and he never mentioned to me that he'd taken it off. Beside the point, but it makes me wonder how long he'd had it off and WHY he took it off in the first place. Was he trying to make a point to me? Is he trying to let the rest of the women out there know that he's NOT married? Is it any of my business??
Anyway, his 20th reunion was this past weekend and I saw that he had a new FB friend who he'd met up with again at the reunion. She's all like, "I hope we see each other again before the next reunion...:)" OMG. And he replies, "Every 5 years isn't enough, I'm thinking par-tay more often :)". Really? Did he just use the word "par-tay"? Oy. And this from a man who's idea of a wild night is getting off the computer long enough to go pee. I mean, he NEVER wanted to go out... ever. But, it's making me crazy to think about him dating someone else.
That's all... I HATE this living in limbo crap. I really do wish he'd just wake up & come to his senses... :p