Boy, I like the idea for this thread! So, I'll be the first to respond - not because my ideas are so original, but to encourage others to respond (and give me more ideas!!!)
Midnight Mass on Christmas Eve
Bake cookies with the kids (some cost, for ingredients)
Make gingerbread house with the kids (again, ingredients)
Have our older kids make small, wooden vehicles and animals, as gifts for our toddler (VERY minimal cost - months ago - for craft kits that I found on clearance...)
Free Christmas music concert (Our local university music dept. puts on a big concert, with a mix of traditional and pop music, at their huge performance hall. You have to make the effort to pick up tickets in advance, but they're free. Last year, we sat in the box seats that you pay through the nose for, when a Broadway show is in town...)
Tour Lilly mansion (The former home of a local philanthropist is on the campus of our Art Museum [he donated the land] and they decorate it to the hilt, at Christmas. Free tours, live music, hot chocolate...)
Trip to our posh, downtown mall with the kids:
* Visit Santa at Nordstrom (He's the real thing. Real beard, twinkle in his eye, endless patience. He takes time to read to the kids. I suspect he breaks into Dutch and sign language, when called for! You have to take your own photos. There's no professional photographer there, pressuring you to spend $30 to commemorate your Santa experience. And for some unfathomable reason, there's never a line; whereas you have to wait 2 hours to see Santa at the Children's Museum. What kid young enough to believe in Santa can wait that long!?!?)
* Free Christmas concerts (There's a cool, mini concert hall in the center of the mall, that's suspended over one of the busiest downtown intersections. So the kids can watch the cars while they sing along.)
* Roaming carolers in Victorian costumes (This is our older kids' favorite thing!)
And my personal favorite: Listen to holiday music and drink hot chocolate while getting out and putting up all of our Christmas decorations. The older kids design the light-up village. The baby plays with the unbreakable ornaments. My husband sings with the country music Christmas c.d. It's perfect!
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