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Ouch!  Poor baby and poor you!  Are you sure it's gas?  Could it be teething pain that the hylands isn't covering, or ear pain from an infection?  I remember Torin was crying and fussy at night and we thought it was gas... but at his well baby visit the next week they found that he had a pretty big ear infection!  We took a wait and see approach (so no abx) but we did start giving him iburofen and night.  It sounds like you're doing everything possible for gas pain... and if it's not helping, maybe look at the teeth or ears angle?  Hang in there!

 

My dr visit- went pretty well I think!  I have a follow up appointment for Jan 13th.  Till then I have a 10 day course of abx followed by three weeks of diflucan (which may turn into a longer course, it depends on symptoms).  Torin has more nystatin and bactorban.  First week of Jan I have a full metabolic workup scheduled, looking at general blood stuff, thyroid, hormones, iron, clotting, etc.  We'll go over the results and options at the visit on the 13th.  We'll discuss treatment for depression at that meeting too, based on what the thyroid looks like.  And we'll discuss what, if anything, needs to be done about the thrush/mrsa at that point (fingers crossed the anx and diflucan work with the "triple nipple" and grapefruit seed extract to knock this thing out!).  It cost more than I'd hoped but less than it could have... the dr wiggled things around so that she could bill a lower amount overall.  I lurve them!

 

winter car- we're negotiating some snow tires.  We do have chains but they 1- don't seem to help and 2- we have to take them on and off every time we drive since you can't go faster than 30mph with them on and we really only need them for our home road.... everything else is snow free and faster than 30mph!

 

dd1's school- it's not "technically" a school... it's a private in-home daycare for children ages 2-8.  The woman who runs it/lives there is a certified teacher in the waldorf tradition and she basically runs the daycare as a small waldorf inspired school.  She helps parents with the homeschooling paperwork and provides lesson plans to families who want that, but it's not an "official" school... it's an "official" in home daycare.  But DH and I are brainstorming... it's gonna be a VERY brainstormy weekend!  LOL

 

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Quick post: Doc felt a lump in each breast.  She thinks they are just cysts but I'm getting a mammogram on Jan 21st (she said it's fine to wait til then.)  I was hoping for a quicker appointment because that would lessen the chance of a big snow storm.  Jan and Feb weather is horrid here.

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I need some ideas. DD is screaming in gas pain in her sleep. Sometime it wakes her, sometimes she only wakes when I try and move or comfort her.  It seems to start about 7 pm.  We've been trying Hyland's teething tabs, colic tabs, Boiron Cocyntal, homeopathic Lycopodium, Simethicone (Mylicon) gas drops.  I've cut back on or elininated from her diet the beans and broccoli. I'm being much moire careful about my dairy intake (she's allergic).  It's better - but the screaming every hour 7pm-3am is horrible.  Any ideas or advice?



I hope you little one feels better soon. 



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Quick post: Doc felt a lump in each breast.  She thinks they are just cysts but I'm getting a mammogram on Jan 21st (she said it's fine to wait til then.)  I was hoping for a quicker appointment because that would lessen the chance of a big snow storm.  Jan and Feb weather is horrid here.



Last year I had the same thing happen and it was cysts.  I cut out caffeine and it has helped a lot, I drank tons of the stuff!

 

Thank you all for the birthday wishes. 

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DOK- thinking of you!

 

Liza- yowza, poor you and poor dd. Hope you can find what is causing it or a way to relieve it.

 

We picked up our second dog today. He is a scavenger and led by his nose, but we can work on that. Our first dog had an immediate bond with us, Xander is a little slower to warm up. He likes us but isn't needy. Should be ineresting...

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I need some ideas. DD is screaming in gas pain in her sleep. Sometime it wakes her, sometimes she only wakes when I try and move or comfort her.  It seems to start about 7 pm.  We've been trying Hyland's teething tabs, colic tabs, Boiron Cocyntal, homeopathic Lycopodium, Simethicone (Mylicon) gas drops.  I've cut back on or elininated from her diet the beans and broccoli. I'm being much moire careful about my dairy intake (she's allergic).  It's better - but the screaming every hour 7pm-3am is horrible.  Any ideas or advice?


Oh goodness that sounds awfuL :(  I think I'd give clays' suggestion a shot and investigate teeth & ears just in case it's not actually her guts.  I do know that whne Lucas had ear infections he really had trouble being flat and wailed like a banshee.. have you got a baby wedge type thing to try?   *hugs* for you, I really hope you figure out what's up!

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My dr visit- went pretty well I think!  I have a follow up appointment for Jan 13th.  Till then I have a 10 day course of abx followed by three weeks of diflucan (which may turn into a longer course, it depends on symptoms).  Torin has more nystatin and bactorban.  First week of Jan I have a full metabolic workup scheduled, looking at general blood stuff, thyroid, hormones, iron, clotting, etc.  We'll go over the results and options at the visit on the 13th.  We'll discuss treatment for depression at that meeting too, based on what the thyroid looks like.  And we'll discuss what, if anything, needs to be done about the thrush/mrsa at that point (fingers crossed the anx and diflucan work with the "triple nipple" and grapefruit seed extract to knock this thing out!).  It cost more than I'd hoped but less than it could have... the dr wiggled things around so that she could bill a lower amount overall.  I lurve them!

 

winter car- we're negotiating some snow tires.  We do have chains but they 1- don't seem to help and 2- we have to take them on and off every time we drive since you can't go faster than 30mph with them on and we really only need them for our home road.... everything else is snow free and faster than 30mph!

 

dd1's school- it's not "technically" a school... it's a private in-home daycare for children ages 2-8.  The woman who runs it/lives there is a certified teacher in the waldorf tradition and she basically runs the daycare as a small waldorf inspired school.  She helps parents with the homeschooling paperwork and provides lesson plans to families who want that, but it's not an "official" school... it's an "official" in home daycare.  But DH and I are brainstorming... it's gonna be a VERY brainstormy weekend!  LOL

 

Clay, oh wonderful that the docs worked so well with you about the $ AND the treatments!  I'm glad they are taking you seriously :)   I know you were a little concerned about that.    Snow tires are DEFINITELY a good idea.. we had them in alaska (obviously lol) and they are actually more helpful than chains IMO.   Ours were actually studded though, not sure if the lower 48 uses those except in the worst areas?   

 

Good luck with your brainstormy weekend huN!

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Quick post: Doc felt a lump in each breast.  She thinks they are just cysts but I'm getting a mammogram on Jan 21st (she said it's fine to wait til then.)  I was hoping for a quicker appointment because that would lessen the chance of a big snow storm.  Jan and Feb weather is horrid here.


THinking good thoughts that they are just cysts.  They are VERY common and some women have them pop up at points in their menstrual cycle, and then vanish.  Our bodies do some odd stuff.  
 

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We picked up our second dog today. He is a scavenger and led by his nose, but we can work on that. Our first dog had an immediate bond with us, Xander is a little slower to warm up. He likes us but isn't needy. Should be ineresting...


Hopefully he gets used to this 'family' idea soon,  he may just need more time to settle in :)   Give him a scratch behind the ears for me hehehe.

 

I need a bit of advice mamas.  My former supervisor STILL has not returned my call about a job reference greensad.gif irked.gif  I'm going to try calling the HR department there on Monday to see if THEY will give just a brief reference verifying my employment if nothing else.  But... I remembered someone I worked with there who I think would give me a reference,  we saw each other weekly with work so she knows how I was with the clients etc.  The only problem is I can only remember her first name.  Here's the twist... DUring my brief tupperware stint, I did a party for her, so I know where she lives.  I am wondering if it would be too stalkerish for me to write a letter and drop it off in her mail box (you can do that here :) or just knock on her door and say Hi Trudy!  and have a chat with her?    We were pretty friendly at that time, but it has been a few years so I think it might be  a bit bizarre lol.  BUT I'm desperate!  I am SURE they will offer me this job if only I can drum up a single decent reference!  Without one, I can kiss it goodbye :(

 

Oh.. and re: really effing $$ uniforms... mum asked about school stuff with the boys today and when I shared that with her she volunteered to make a donation LOL.  Do I have an awesome MIL or what?  Seriously, she rocks!  thumb.gif  
 

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Cari- You DO have an awesome MIL!

As far as the reference, not so stalkerish, but pretty forward. I would try calling and then try the letter. I like being fwd.

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grrrr. i swear some days i wanna just run screaming from this house. i was having a rough day, my body was really hurting and i was really tired. so what happens to dh? well he feels bad too so he can't do anything to help out. i just wanna freaking scream. i swear this happens alot. i can't just rest. grrr.

 

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Originally Posted by wombatclay View PostMy dr visit- went pretty well I think!  I have a follow up appointment for Jan 13th. 

 

the dr wiggled things around so that she could bill a lower amount overall.  I lurve them!

 

But DH and I are brainstorming... it's gonna be a VERY brainstormy weekend!  LOL

 

Yay on the Dr. visit! You do sound MUCH relieved, even through the 'net smile.gif And yay about the price. That's awesome. It sounds like your DH and you are being rational and not freaking out, which is always a good thing! Things will work out, Clay. They will.



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Originally Posted by CariOfOz View PostI am wondering if it would be too stalkerish for me to write a letter and drop it off in her mail box (you can do that here :) or just knock on her door and say Hi Trudy!  and have a chat with her?

 

 

Not at all stalkerish! I would definitely do it (and peek at her mailbox for her last name while you're at it winky.gif ) Just out and ask her if she'll write a reference letter! I'm sure she will!



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Originally Posted by mamaofthree View Postgrrrr. i swear some days i wanna just run screaming from this house. i was having a rough day, my body was really hurting and i was really tired. so what happens to dh? well he feels bad too so he can't do anything to help out. i just wanna freaking scream. i swear this happens alot. i can't just rest. grrr.

 

Aww, big hugs hug2.gif That has to be more frustrating than not having anyone at all (like me). I used to live it, though. Had two other people in the house, plus an infant, and it was like having three infants. HUGE hugs, and remember to breathe.

Plus, you say GRRR too, so you win goblets and chocolate cupcakes! lol.gif

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Originally Posted by CariOfOz View PostI am wondering if it would be too stalkerish for me to write a letter and drop it off in her mail box (you can do that here :) or just knock on her door and say Hi Trudy!  and have a chat with her?

 

 

Not at all stalkerish! I would definitely do it (and peek at her mailbox for her last name while you're at it winky.gif ) Just out and ask her if she'll write a reference letter! I'm sure she will!

 

 *whew*  My MIL didn't think it was too weird either lol.    Mailboxes here don't have names on them though!  so that idea is a no go LOL.  She's the kind of person I just come out and say I'm sorry Trudy, I can NOT remember your last name for the life of me!  and she'll say that's ok, I couldn't remember yours either lol.gif      I also had a DUH moment,  I searched for her on facebook and MIGHT have found her ( I'm not 100% sure about the last name but I think it might be her)  and sent a msg.. so wish me luck!

 

It's muggy and overcast and likely to rain more here today so nothing planned.  Actually a big thing plannned.. I have to work out how to fund the rest of the things I have to buy for xmas  BEFORE xmas lol.. 2 more paychecks and one of hose might get eaten by the power bill EEEK!!!!

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clay-health and money vibes to you!!goodvibes.gifmo3-yeah, I would, and often do, get really super pissy when DH has one of his many headaches-for which he refuses to go to the doctor-and I have to take care of everybody. Hugs hug2.gif

cari-good luck with Trudy...hey, forgetting a last name? WAY less embarrassing than forgetting a first name!lol.gif

 

aeress-happy new doggie! I have personally found sometimes the ones who are slow to warm, end up being the most affectionate. Case in point my cat Nibby I told you all a bit about before. He was so traumatized it took SO many months for him to come around at all, and he turned out to be a total soulmate. 

 

liza-ITA, if it is indeed gas our saving grace has been massage and knees-to-belly. I had to help my DH with this, with DD we REALLY have to get those knees into the belly-her feet actually almost touch her face. I'm afraid it probably looks forceful and she cries as the gas moves, but BOY does it come flying out. But like Clay said could it be something else? Is her ear red, in whole or in part, when she is NOT crying? Is she pulling on the ear?

I must say, it comes in handy having a husband who works in the hearing sciences and can spot an ear infection-but you should see him react to how often otoscopes are misused, even by pediatricians! 

 

DOK-thinking of you and goodvibes.gif for good health. I have have very cyst-y ovaries since around age 12, also benign...here's hoping your situation is similar.

 

once again I fell off the face of the earth here, plus a little bit of computer issues. And a doctor bonanza-got an IUD on wednesday, and as I suspected would happen my body is having a bit of trouble adjusting. I am so used to the pill-because of the aforementioned ovarian cysts, I've been on them since age 15, but because of the Cholestasis I should not be on hormonal birth control(it actually causes itching.) I was terrified of the procedure, and I hate the idea of this metal thing in my body. But what are you going to do.

 

It's my birthday, and I keep forgetting that. My dad, bro and sis did a combo birthday/Yule/Hanukkah gift and got me a Wii! Plus my bro sent a copy of the game Okami...if a painting were a game, it would be Okami, it is so drool-worthy!  Then I used some b-day cash to get Lego Harry Potter.orngbiggrin.gif

 

DH will be out of town from tomorrow morning till very late tuesday night, and DS seems crushed about it.greensad.gif So tonight they've set up another one of their experiments and at my urging made a "chart" together, which DS and I will use to record observations and report back to DH when he gets back.  I hope it helps. Daddy is always the first thing he asks for in the morning.

 

I continue to be super happy with our book Vegan Comfort Food...we tried out the Egg "MacGuffin" this weekend and it rocks!! And we just acquired our own copy of Cooking With Seitan, we have not tried it yet but are stoked, it's like the seitan bible!

 

enough blabbering, have a nice sunday eve ladies!

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I know gas/intestinal issues are at least a big part of her problem. Thanks for the ideas and empathy.  (I wrote a long post yesterday responding to ideas, then she hit the power button, argh.) Let's see: DD is 12months. She's dairy allergic and bf'ing. I have to admit I haven't been as strictly dairy-free as I should. Previously she didn't have symptoms if I had an occassionally cheese slice.  I am not currently gluten-free but hapowing any signs she had during her last ear infection, but she's teething a bit.  ve had sensitivity problems in the past and done elimination diets.  For the last few days we've allowed no solid food after 6 pm except soy yogurt or homemade applesauce. She nurses or drinks hemp milk.  Today she snubbed food.  She isn't liking tummy massage, but we do some. She likes really warm hands on her tummy.  She also likes when I rocke her belly side-to-side or if I put my hand under her bottom and rock her pelvis up & down.  She has been unhappy sleeping on her tummy, unless she is sleeping in me or on a pillow.  The last few days she's has diarrhea and really explosive "sharts," but she's also had normal poop, all in the same day. She gone though from 1 poop per day to 4 or 5 though.  She has almost so discomfort except  5 pm - 6 am.  I can't take time off this week, so I can't get her to the ND until 12/21.

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I need a bit of advice mamas.  My former supervisor STILL has not returned my call about a job reference greensad.gif irked.gif  I'm going to try calling the HR department there on Monday to see if THEY will give just a brief reference verifying my employment if nothing else.  But... I remembered someone I worked with there who I think would give me a reference,  we saw each other weekly with work so she knows how I was with the clients etc.  The only problem is I can only remember her first name.  Here's the twist... DUring my brief tupperware stint, I did a party for her, so I know where she lives.  I am wondering if it would be too stalkerish for me to write a letter and drop it off in her mail box (you can do that here :) or just knock on her door and say Hi Trudy!  and have a chat with her?    We were pretty friendly at that time, but it has been a few years so I think it might be  a bit bizarre lol.  BUT I'm desperate!  I am SURE they will offer me this job if only I can drum up a single decent reference!  Without one, I can kiss it goodbye :(

 

 


I agree with the others, not stalkerish at all. 

 



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It's my birthday,

 

I continue to be super happy with our book Vegan Comfort Food...we tried out the Egg "MacGuffin" this weekend and it rocks!! And we just acquired our own copy of Cooking With Seitan, we have not tried it yet but are stoked, it's like the seitan bible!

 

enough blabbering, have a nice sunday eve ladies!


Happy Birthday!!!

 

I have seen that book vegan comfort food a few times but never picked it up.  I might look at it now though.

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Morning:)  I hope everyone had a good weekend.  It rained here yesterday so much I didn't think it would end.  This morning it is pretty warm though around 45 so I will take this opportunity to clean out the wood stove and tackle the mountain of dishes in the sink! 

 

Have a great day:)

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Hi Ladies,

 

Feeling yucky today, I think I ate too much of stuff I shouldn't, plus some post nasal drip. Oh well, I will just take it easy today and try and sneak in a nap.

 

Thinking of everyone today

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I know gas/intestinal issues are at least a big part of her problem. Thanks for the ideas and empathy.  (I wrote a long post yesterday responding to ideas, then she hit the power button, argh.) Let's see: DD is 12months. She's dairy allergic and bf'ing. I have to admit I haven't been as strictly dairy-free as I should. Previously she didn't have symptoms if I had an occassionally cheese slice.  I am not currently gluten-free but hapowing any signs she had during her last ear infection, but she's teething a bit.  ve had sensitivity problems in the past and done elimination diets.  For the last few days we've allowed no solid food after 6 pm except soy yogurt or homemade applesauce. She nurses or drinks hemp milk.  Today she snubbed food.  She isn't liking tummy massage, but we do some. She likes really warm hands on her tummy.  She also likes when I rocke her belly side-to-side or if I put my hand under her bottom and rock her pelvis up & down.  She has been unhappy sleeping on her tummy, unless she is sleeping in me or on a pillow.  The last few days she's has diarrhea and really explosive "sharts," but she's also had normal poop, all in the same day. She gone though from 1 poop per day to 4 or 5 though.  She has almost so discomfort except  5 pm - 6 am.  I can't take time off this week, so I can't get her to the ND until 12/21.


if you can, get some homeopathic cell salts - specifically Magnesia Phosphorica 6X.  if she does a sippy cup with water, put 4-6 tablets in the bottle and let her nurse the bottle as she wishes over the course of the day. (if she's experiencing teething pain, this will help with that as well). do it for one day, then stop and see if she reverts back or if you've shifted her trajectory.

 

if you can't get to the store, but if you do have homeopathic pulsatilla 30C, you might try one dose then wait and see.  they don't call it the wind flower for nothing ;)  

 

if you don't have easy access to homeopathics, you might try adding epsom salts to her bath.  a lot of epsom salts - like 1 or 2 cups of the stuff - the water should "taste" soft.  it might help to relieve the cramping that goes along with gas pains.  ds used to even drink the water (blech) but as long as he hadn't pee'd in it, i usually didn't object.

 

 

 

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if the wind hadn't rolled in last night, we'd be digging out from some snow.  but... the blustery wind blew a lot of it away.  chilly nippy almost-sunny weather here.  nice and quiet on campus (classes have ended) so it is easy to find a parking spot.

 

have a lovely day!

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Hugs DOK... thinking of you!

 

NewMoon- Happy Birthday!

 

Maia- I LURV you!  Your card (and proto-yummies) came at the perfect moment.  We're going to have them on Solstice.  :)

 

Cards- will be going out today or tomorrow.  Sorry they're so late, but they should reach people by Solstice!

 

Holiday stuff- the local green burial site did their "take a tree for free" thing again this year (green burial.. no boxes/no chemicals, and they let people remove invasive/non-native plants for free).  So our tree is a little bit "rugged" looking but I actually like the slightly wild look.  And it's really pretty perfect.  :)  Of course, Tor has already eaten a few dried orange slices and pulled some felt ornaments off the tree (falling over backwards in the process and shaking the tree) so I feel justified in our decision to use only rugged ornaments this year.  LOL  So we have felt dolls, felt totoros, homemade paper stars (junk mail, chopped up, blendered, dried with strips of orange peel in it), some straw ornaments from IKEA, orange slices, and some of the smaller wooden ornaments from the past.  The more delicate snowflake and star ornaments are hanging on the light fixtures and from the doorways, and the stockings (FINISHED!  HUZZAH!) are hanging from a ribbon on the wall.  It looks nice I think.  :)

 

Weather- we had freezing rain and sleet all day yesterday (and no internet signal as a result) and the 6-8 inches of snow washed away.  Today it's snowing again so it's actually nice... I was able to clean off the stoop (covered in ice and frozden leaves and ick) and now it's snowing so it looks pretty too.  I'm using some of the pine branches we cut off the tree to make Lucia's Day crowns and some to make a little "Mother Shrine" on the stoop.

 

Any ideas how to make Tor stop drinking the rabbit's water?  Sigh.  He's a nut!

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catching up on my blog reading.... here's a lovely idea for whenever you have quiet time: http://divinenourishment.net/blog/2010/12/encounter-with-the-sea-goddess/

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Happy Birthday NewMoonMum!  I hope you had a wonderful day and enjoy your birthday week!

 

I'm re-entering the land of the living after being sick since Wed.  Now to catch up with life...and Solstice cards. hide.gif

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