I have 3 older kids all in school and the new baby. I have let fear overtake me, and am so terrified that the baby will get the flu and be hospitalized or die from it. I always do this, get obsessed that i"m going to be the one person that something like that happens to. The anxiety is affecting my abililty to function, I'm just so worried about my baby. But I'm also not too keen on getting flu shots for the older 3, and know that we can get the shot and still get the flu. I do feel like if I get the vax for them I'll have a sense of security (albeit probably a false sense of security since effectiveness isn't always great). Someone please talk some sense in to me, I'm a mess.