I am so stressed, didnt go well at the urologist today. need advice - Page 2

[Carma]

My 3 year old son is also not retractable yet I think. I never touch his foreskin.

He never had any redness. He takes baths about once a week in water without any soap or takes a shower.

I wouldn't do the cream.

Carma

[AllieFaye]

Find another urologist.  We're on our third.  Our first was highly recommended - but he wasn't for us.  I didn't care what someone's credentials were.  If they couldn't respect our family's values then they weren't for us.  Circ is not something I'm willing to compromise on one iota.  It has been worth it to find our current doctor.  A good urologist is an amazing doc to have!

[Papai]

My son is 3 and nowhere near retractable. Expecting a 3 year old to be retractable is absurd. The main function of the foreskin retracting is for sexual reasons, so it makes sense that it doesn't happen fully til puberty for some boys. Go get a second or third opinion.