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My 3 year old has never snatched from, hit, or hurt, any other kid.  She is so sweet and wonderful. Except to her baby sister!  People who know her can't even imagine it when I tell them.  She snatches, grabs, pushes her, knocks her over, hits her....pure evil! It makes me so so so angry to see someone hurting my baby!  I guess she's jealous and resentful. It's usually over a toy she wants, but only if the baby has it then she wants it. Sometimes she's literally kissing her one minute and hitting over the head the next!

 

I try to spend time with her and all that, but it's so nearly impossible and I never could give her all the attention she really wants.  It will never be like before the baby was here.

 

I know things are always phases, but what if she's like this forever?

 

Anyone with experience like this?